My first night out in NYC
Whenever you move to a new place, there is that exciting feeling of it all being new. Somehow, I think back to years before COVID-19, before lockdowns. Compare it to…
A college guide for the misfit and late bloomer
I get quite a few messages from guys in college who ask me how to meet people and yes, most importantly, meet women. I’d say that the advice asking for…
Why statistics and “studies” stop mattering after a point
The ideal man has to be 6’3 , yeah like right at 6’3. Come from an old money family, New England WASP please. Speak with a Scottish accent, thank you.…
Strong men accept harsh truths and still shine
Inner game and mindset get tossed around a lot and often times, they are just shown as motivational mumbo jumbo. We hear all the time about conquering your mind or…
Know your market
I almost wanted to call it the number one rule of dating to be honest with you but then again, looks and confidence do matter a lot. In the past,…
One of the biggest differences between naturals and guys that struggle
I have recently found myself getting a lot of mail about my dislike for Pickup and “Seduction”. In the past, I have mentioned how this is not meant to be…
Does Laycount Matter?
If you’ve spent enough time in the pickup community, you’ve probably heard the term laycount tossed around. If not, I can guarantee you’ve thought about the idea, even if you…
How I would actually coach single men.
A lot of material exists for single guys to get coaching on how to get better with women and be more attractive. I have also received email asking if I…