Why doing a lot of approaches means nothing.

“Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.”Albert Einsten All too often in the game community, people respect a guy for "approaching" and for doing a lot of approaches. A lot of dating coaches will run bootcamps where they are telling students to approach like mad men. Well, I am … Continue reading Why doing a lot of approaches means nothing.

Why my stance on cold approach and day game has changed.

For those of you who have been following my blog for a while, you know that I have not always been the biggest champion of cold approach. Even though I was not the biggest enemy of it, I was always trying to call out pickup artists as being sleazy and even proposing that things like … Continue reading Why my stance on cold approach and day game has changed.

10 lessons I’ve learned about women, dating, and relationships in my twenties.

Every year, I get closer to 30 and as I approach the new decade, I thought I'd share some of the lessons I have learned about women, dating, relationships, and "game" throughout my twenties. Now the post may get long and even have a part 2 to it if I feel like it is worth … Continue reading 10 lessons I’ve learned about women, dating, and relationships in my twenties.

Why you probably shouldn’t worry about male competition, PUAs and gender ratios.

After close to a year in a city that some consider to be highly competitive when it comes to dating and meeting women, I decided to make this post. You tend to hear it all the time really and guys are obsessed with the magic place they can go to where single women outnumber single … Continue reading Why you probably shouldn’t worry about male competition, PUAs and gender ratios.

Five blunt differences I’ve noticed between NYC’s social vibe vs Miami’s.

After a little over six months in Miami compared to quite a few years in NYC, I have had the chance to reflect and see how the vibes and scenes of the two cities stack up. I have done a post in the past comparing the two cities but now I want to take the … Continue reading Five blunt differences I’ve noticed between NYC’s social vibe vs Miami’s.