Last week, after exhausting hours at work, I decided to take a walk around Manhattan and made my way to one of the most vibrant areas of the city. Now if you were to believe the reports coming out of the media and read the stories on the internet, you would have thought that NYC … Continue reading Recent observations of NYC during COVID-19.
Winners treated it as offseason while losers treated it as a lockdown.
As lockdowns end and even NYC enters phase 2, soon to enter phase 3, I have been beyond annoyed in recent months from guys whining about the lockdown. Now it usually takes a good bit to get me annoyed to where I have to speak out but man, even when some of my close friends … Continue reading Winners treated it as offseason while losers treated it as a lockdown.
Bucket list items for my twenties.
Not that long ago, I made a post about the things I wish I would have done in my twenties. Now not that long from now, my twenties are going to end and I am going to be thirty before I know it. With the few years I have left in my twenties, there are … Continue reading Bucket list items for my twenties.
The root of the failure behind Red Pill and PUA.
In previous posts, I have discussed why PUA failed and why I left the red pill community. Now I want to actually revisit something that I like to call the root of the failure of both of those communities and why they are now largely defunct. Don't get me wrong, a small number have stood the test … Continue reading The root of the failure behind Red Pill and PUA.
What do dating and career growth have in common?
This blog is a lot of things, but it isn’t a place for career advice. We’re not going to talk about how to crush the GMAT or the LSAT, how to get that promotion, or how to get started on a side project. All that stuff can be important, but it’s not what we’ve decided … Continue reading What do dating and career growth have in common?
My experience with a pyramid scheme.
In my first year of NYC, I was out and about the city and due to me learning cold approach a bit from PUA, it was not that out of the norm for me to talk to a stranger unless they were sketchy. On one cold winter afternoon, I am running errands and happen to … Continue reading My experience with a pyramid scheme.
Porn: The Good And The Bad
Truth time. How many of you watch porn at least once a month? I know I do. I watched porn this past Saturday actually. Is that surprising? After all, you might expect that with the self-improvement lifestyle that we promote on this blog, we'd advocate never watching porn again. Well I think it's more nuanced … Continue reading Porn: The Good And The Bad
Things I wish I would have done in my twenties.
One of the few things that still gets me to this day is how quickly my twenties have flown by but thankfully I still have a couple more years left. Some say that it is by far the most important decade of your entire life and I am still not at the point where I … Continue reading Things I wish I would have done in my twenties.
Race and Ethnicity: Actionable advice (Part 5)
So we are going to be capping off our series on Race and Ethnicity, after this we might just pause talks on it for the time being although it will remain a recurring theme on this blog. On the final post about race, I am going to be giving you actionable advice you can take if … Continue reading Race and Ethnicity: Actionable advice (Part 5)
Race and Ethnicity: A winning mindset (part 4)
We are now on part 4 of our series on Race and Ethnicity with one more part to go but this part is crucial when it comes to application. So far, I have given you the layout on what the situation is out there but not told you specifically how you can think about it. … Continue reading Race and Ethnicity: A winning mindset (part 4)
Troubling times.
I was planning on continuing my series in today's post but I kind of wanted to give a peek for readers into my life, almost calling out an elephant in the room. Society in recent months has went through hell and quite frankly, it is one of those times where even people close to me … Continue reading Troubling times.
Race and Ethnicity: The harsh truth about attraction you don’t want to accept (part 3)
"The truth shall set you free" - John 8:32. Remember that quote for later on in this post! In part 1 of our series, we covered how preference is actually fueled by prejudice and in part 2, we covered guys saying women do not want them for their race. So far, I have acknowledged the prejudice … Continue reading Race and Ethnicity: The harsh truth about attraction you don’t want to accept (part 3)