Is the cold approach dead?

In my previous post, I talked about how he world of dating has transformed alongside the world of sales. The question we left off with is just like cold calling, is the cold approach potentially dead? Cold approaching has been the bread and butter of game ever since pickup artists became popular but even well … Continue reading Is the cold approach dead?

A parallel between how the dating and business world have transformed.

Sales and marketing have a very strong parallel to game and attracting women as you get down to the specifics, for those of us who have been in the game long enough. "Generating leads" and "converting" them to where they want to buy has a lot of parallel to getting a girl to be interested … Continue reading A parallel between how the dating and business world have transformed.

You’re definitely going to lose some friends.

I got bored over the weekend, maybe a bit too bored perhaps. After looking through my Instagram, I looked a few years back. Back then, I was still coming into form as a late bloomer who was starting to develop. I didn't set boundaries hard enough and I let myself be taken advantage of or … Continue reading You’re definitely going to lose some friends.

To any guy out there having confidence issues

So as is normal in the self-improvement game, especially when dating is concerned, all too many men suffer from confidence issues. The biggest tragedy is when the guys who suffer from confidence issues are actually guys who have nothing wrong with them. I have been wanting to do this for a while now as someone … Continue reading To any guy out there having confidence issues

What guys who win at the dating game do differently these days.

For those of you who had the chance to read my previous post about The Tale of Two Bachelors, you had the chance to see the difference between two younger guys. One was an aspiring pickup artist misled by the community trying to game while living with his parents and the other was a guy … Continue reading What guys who win at the dating game do differently these days.

A tale of two bachelors.

Sonny and Nick are two bachelors in their twenties, here is a tale of the two and how their lives differ. On a Saturday morning, Sonny wakes up as his mother tells him what is for breakfast. At the age of twenty-five, Sonny lives at home with his parents. After graduating school, he could not … Continue reading A tale of two bachelors.

Dating apps are quite reflective of your value whether you like it or not.

So lately, the trend in the pickup and game community has been to start hating dating apps. The reasoning goes that it does not give a man the chance to run "game" and online game isn't exactly "game". For starters, this is very telling of how far out of touch the game community has fallen … Continue reading Dating apps are quite reflective of your value whether you like it or not.

Why dating apps have become my favorite way of meeting women.

My post here will not be a popular one and do doubt I get a lot of heat but I could care less, it is my opinion and experience so far. Dating apps have long come under fire from experts due to their fake and artificial nature. The argument goes that on a dating app, … Continue reading Why dating apps have become my favorite way of meeting women.

Tough and uncomfortable discussions are a test of character and unveil a lot.

In recent years, as I have peeked over certain discussions that happen in male centered spaces around some "touchy" topics, I have seen something troubling happening. What happens is that such discussions that center around things like race and looks are promptly shut down because they are "unproductive". After-all, since you cannot change your race … Continue reading Tough and uncomfortable discussions are a test of character and unveil a lot.

How you should be using wealth to score more often

I've written about career success and its correlation to having success with women before and our dear friend Pablo has elaborated on it as well. So I have seen a trend recently takeover saying that wealthy men actually struggle with women and dating when it comes to short-term flings. If you are a guy with … Continue reading How you should be using wealth to score more often