Not another Long Island!

The song that still sticks to my head from that night.... Being in lockdown mode just reminds me of the nights spent going out back in 2019. To some degree, while I am fulfilled with life right now given how cool work from home is, I occasionally think back to some of those nights out. … Continue reading Not another Long Island!

The real reason you should not be satisfied with just “getting laid”.

In the age of PUA and "game", we have had this obsession with notch count which is something our respected writer Pablo talked about on his post. So I wanted to elaborate a bit more on why this obsession with lay count is problematic and why you should not just be satisfied with pumping and … Continue reading The real reason you should not be satisfied with just “getting laid”.

My first night out in NYC

Whenever you move to a new place, there is that exciting feeling of it all being new. Somehow, I think back to years before COVID-19, before lockdowns. Compare it to a freshman in college in his first semester or when you move to a new city after school. In those first few months, you do … Continue reading My first night out in NYC

A college guide for the misfit and late bloomer

I get quite a few messages from guys in college who ask me how to meet people and yes, most importantly, meet women. I'd say that the advice asking for college help is one of the most common ones I get these days. Now granted, COVID-19 has changed things and we don't know what the … Continue reading A college guide for the misfit and late bloomer

Why statistics and “studies” stop mattering after a point

The ideal man has to be 6'3 , yeah like right at 6'3. Come from an old money family, New England WASP please. Speak with a Scottish accent, thank you. Have tanned skin, pretty much a requirement. As you are shut-in with lockdowns which might pick back up with COVID-19 making a comeback , you … Continue reading Why statistics and “studies” stop mattering after a point

Strong men accept harsh truths and still shine

Inner game and mindset get tossed around a lot and often times, they are just shown as motivational mumbo jumbo. We hear all the time about conquering your mind or being a warrior but the reality is, it is all a bunch of motivational nonsense. We talk about inner game and having a strong mindset … Continue reading Strong men accept harsh truths and still shine

Know your market

I almost wanted to call it the number one rule of dating to be honest with you but then again, looks and confidence do matter a lot. In the past, we have talked a bit about what successful versus unsuccessful guys do differently when it comes to dating and pursuing women. Now one rule that … Continue reading Know your market

One of the biggest differences between naturals and guys that struggle

I have recently found myself getting a lot of mail about my dislike for Pickup and "Seduction". In the past, I have mentioned how this is not meant to be a pickup or seduction blog. What I did want to discuss today is a key difference I have seen with naturals and guys who struggle … Continue reading One of the biggest differences between naturals and guys that struggle