Five lessons I’ve learned after five years of dating.

I remember around the 2015 to 2016 time frame when my dating life really took off in a big way. Matches were happening a lot more often on dating apps and after losing some weight to get in the best shape of my life, I actually had better luck at bars and nightclubs. As 2020 … Continue reading Five lessons I’ve learned after five years of dating.

Once you realize this unique fact, rejection won’t hurt nearly as much.

Let's assume at some point, things start getting somewhat back to normal. You go out and are all excited that you can finally be outside, near people, without having to wear a mask everywhere. After months of being locked inside, you feel like a kid at a candy store when you head to your local … Continue reading Once you realize this unique fact, rejection won’t hurt nearly as much.

The best thing you can do in these hectic times.

For all of my fellow Americans who have been watching the news and seeing the political shitshow unfold, I am sure you can all relate. We thought 2020 being over would bring some great things to light but 2021 is not missing a beat from the shitshow of 2020. It's really crazy to think about … Continue reading The best thing you can do in these hectic times.

Do cities with tough dating environments really produce men that are good with women?

A couple years ago, I was hanging out with a friend and his cousin from Toronto. Now for those of you who are not aware, it is considered one of the toughest cities in North America for dating and meeting women. The reasons are plentiful but they involve things such as: Pickup culture that results … Continue reading Do cities with tough dating environments really produce men that are good with women?

Maybe Astrology is kind of real.

For those of you who have followed me for a while, you know that I kind of do believe in astrology. I am not talking the newspaper horoscope stuff or stuff about your one sign in particular. You guys can Google things about Astrology yourselves, I am not just talking "well he is a Pisces … Continue reading Maybe Astrology is kind of real.

Sometimes all you have to do is step outside.

The clock ticks and we are hours away from the end of 2020. I am writing up the post, it was actually this one here, and I reflect a bit on it all. 2020 has been one crazy year for all of us and I think about my odd situation at work. Due to having … Continue reading Sometimes all you have to do is step outside.

Why patience is an underrated skill in dating.

Maybe she writes back, maybe she does not. You texted her, and she did not text back, already 24 hours have flown by. You messaged her on the app and she never messaged back, a couple days have flown by. So you think, maybe you ping her again. Maybe you text her again. Maybe you … Continue reading Why patience is an underrated skill in dating.

Should you go for the women you want or the women that want you?

A while back, I posted about knowing your market and received various emails around my post. My point was that, depending on your look (race playing a big part in that), certain kinds of women are just going to be nicer to you than others. Now here you are as a guy caught in the … Continue reading Should you go for the women you want or the women that want you?

Advice for anyone going through a rough time right now.

"And it was so fucking hilarious because he would throw crap over the fence and she'd consider it quality man, this dude did not give a fuck," said Rob, as we all laughed. We did laugh over a few drinks and it was hilarious. Rob told us a story about how he used to be … Continue reading Advice for anyone going through a rough time right now.

Observations and lessons from 2020.

A year for the ages and one for the history books, one you may never forget. The scary part is, we do not even know how much wilder 2021 is going to get. I start to write this as we are a little less than half an hour away on the east coast (USA) of … Continue reading Observations and lessons from 2020.