Toxic beliefs about dating and life I am glad I lost

β€œWatch your thoughts, they become words;watch your words, they become actions;watch your actions, they become habits;watch your habits, they become character;watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.”Lao Tzu (most likely) The powerful quote has been affiliated with a lot of different history figures but from my research, it seems to likely come from Lao … Continue reading Toxic beliefs about dating and life I am glad I lost

Should you move to that world-class city you always dreamed of moving to?

For those of you who know my story and just the way I think about things, you know how much moving to NYC changed my life. In fact, I attribute moving to NYC as the single biggest thing that led to me changing in such a major way. Yet, as I think about it, was … Continue reading Should you move to that world-class city you always dreamed of moving to?

Are American/”western” women really that bad?

Over the years, I have heard a lot of guys complain about how bad American women or just women from the "Anglosphere" are compared to women who are not a part of western culture. Entire movements support this idea and it has certainly gained a lot of traction in movements such as the red pill … Continue reading Are American/”western” women really that bad?

Politically incorrect observations about NYC nightlife.

As the city reopens, officially in July, I think back to the years I spent going out in Manhattan before COVID-19 hit. What amazed me is that even in those years, some things just never really changed. I will say that even as the city reopens, I will observe the same politically incorrect things to … Continue reading Politically incorrect observations about NYC nightlife.