If you've spent enough time in the pickup community, you've probably heard the term laycount tossed around. If not, I can guarantee you've thought about the idea, even if you don't know the term. Basically, laycount is just the number of women you've had sex with in your lifetime. Within the pickup community there's a… Continue reading Does Laycount Matter?
This blog is a lot of things, but it isn’t a place for career advice. We’re not going to talk about how to crush the GMAT or the LSAT, how to get that promotion, or how to get started on a side project. All that stuff can be important, but it’s not what we’ve decided… Continue reading What do dating and career growth have in common?
Truth time. How many of you watch porn at least once a month? I know I do. I watched porn this past Saturday actually. Is that surprising? After all, you might expect that with the self-improvement lifestyle that we promote on this blog, we'd advocate never watching porn again. Well I think it's more nuanced… Continue reading Porn: The Good And The Bad
A couple years after college, I started a new job. It was at a well-respected company and the role seemed to be a great fit for me, so I was excited to get started. But a couple weeks into my new role, I began to realize that the company had pulled a bait-and-switch on me.… Continue reading 5 Minutes a Day For a Happier Life
These past few months have definitely been some of the craziest in any of our lifetimes. But there seems to be a light at the end of the tunnel. Businesses are starting to reopen in many parts of the US, and will be reopening soon in many other parts of the country. This is good… Continue reading How to Dress Like You Give a Shit
In my last post, I talked about a particularly memorable first date. And in his last post, MB talked about an even more memorable one. Losing his virginity on a first date. So I thought it would be a good idea to give you some tips on how to have a successful first date. Now,… Continue reading 10 Tips For A Successful First Date
What does it mean to have a successful first date? Every guy probably has a slightly different definition of this. For some guys, it’s meeting a woman that you can see yourself spending the rest of your life with. Maybe the date ends in a kiss, nothing more, but the promise of a long-term relationship… Continue reading The First Date Chronicles: 1
In my last post, I talked about my experience with a dating coach. If you’ve read it, you know my experience was pretty positive. I had a blast, learned some new things about dating and seduction and about myself, and came away with a stronger sense of confidence. Maybe some of you have been thinking… Continue reading Five Reasons You Shouldn’t See a Dating Coach (And One Reason You Should)
Note: This is the first in a two part series on dating coaches. In my next post I’ll talk about when I think it’s a good idea to see a coach and when it isn’t. I have a confession to make, something that none of my closest friends know about me. I’ve only told one… Continue reading Confession: I Saw a Dating Coach
Gyms in many parts of the US are finally starting to reopen, and they’re scheduled to reopen in other parts of the country soon. So I thought this would be the perfect time to make this post. Anyone who read my life story knows I used to be skinny. Like really skinny. I’m 6’1 and… Continue reading Want to Build Muscle? 8 Helpful Things to Keep in Mind
I hope everyone enjoyed my last post about what led me to start taking testosterone replacement therapy (TRT). If you haven’t read it yet, I’d recommend you do that before reading this post. As I mentioned in my last post, TRT has had some huge impacts on my life. And I’ve only been on it… Continue reading 7 Ways TRT Has Changed My Life
Since I posted the second part of my life story, a few guys have reached out to ask about hormone health in general, and testosterone replacement (TRT) more specifically. This is a super important topic that I don’t think gets enough attention, especially as it relates to younger guys, so I decided to dedicate one… Continue reading Low Testosterone Was Ruining My Life