As I come up on almost a year in Miami, I wanted to take this time to give everyone the blunt low-down on Miami. Now, my honeymoon period with the city is over and as a result, I can start to see it more objectively than when I first came here. I can also compare … Continue reading The good, the bad, and the ugly about life in Miami.
A reminder to why I game and why you should too.
Maybe a friendly reminder, who really knows what to call it. Lately, I have had to travel a lot for work and in one instance, I had dinner with my boss and employees at our client. Our clients are all guys in their thirties that are married with kids and as is my boss. This … Continue reading A reminder to why I game and why you should too.
A must read post about meeting women and dating for every guy in these trying times.
Ever since 2020 and the start of the pandemic, times have been tough and that is an understatement. We are dealing with inflation, massive lay-offs, and a potential recession on the horizon. Political divisions keep getting worse and it seems like every year, society is falling apart. It's different from the times a lot of … Continue reading A must read post about meeting women and dating for every guy in these trying times.
The beauty of a dead ego
I come to all of you today about something that has plagued me for a lot of my life and something I see affecting almost all men who get into the game. That something is called ego. I won't bother with a psychology lesson here and in terms of the way psychology would define "ego", … Continue reading The beauty of a dead ego
The guys getting the best results almost always move on.
I have been around the game community for quite some time and been familiar with a number of different communities whether they were RSD, Good Looking Loser, or other pickup communities. Now in all of these communities, especially Good Looking Loser back in the day, you always had the guys getting the results. By this, … Continue reading The guys getting the best results almost always move on.
Why doing a lot of approaches means nothing.
“Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.”Albert Einsten All too often in the game community, people respect a guy for "approaching" and for doing a lot of approaches. A lot of dating coaches will run bootcamps where they are telling students to approach like mad men. Well, I am … Continue reading Why doing a lot of approaches means nothing.
Status: Why you must first accept who you really are.
So a topic that comes up a lot these days in regards to attracting women is the talk about status and being "cool". The reason I bring this up is because it is not only kind of personal to me but also personal to a lot of my readers. I feel like because I have … Continue reading Status: Why you must first accept who you really are.
10 lessons I’ve learned about women, dating, and relationships in my twenties.
Every year, I get closer to 30 and as I approach the new decade, I thought I'd share some of the lessons I have learned about women, dating, relationships, and "game" throughout my twenties. Now the post may get long and even have a part 2 to it if I feel like it is worth … Continue reading 10 lessons I’ve learned about women, dating, and relationships in my twenties.
Five blunt differences I’ve noticed between NYC’s social vibe vs Miami’s.
After a little over six months in Miami compared to quite a few years in NYC, I have had the chance to reflect and see how the vibes and scenes of the two cities stack up. I have done a post in the past comparing the two cities but now I want to take the … Continue reading Five blunt differences I’ve noticed between NYC’s social vibe vs Miami’s.
Why most single men should avoid Miami.
After a few months in Miami, I am here to give my input on the city's dating scene. Before I do, I want to talk about my situation in Miami. I am actually loving it here. My dating life has not been too bad in Miami and I am loving life in general. Miami has … Continue reading Why most single men should avoid Miami.
Why you must stop thinking that men peak at a later age.
So there is a common notion that gets told about how women age like milk and men age like fine wine. We are all also familiar with the chart by Rational Male around how men peak somewhere around their 30s. Now some will debate and say that this is not actually true at all and … Continue reading Why you must stop thinking that men peak at a later age.
Why music festivals are overrated.
Around a week ago, Miami had the Ultra music festival which was hyped up non-stop. In the past years, music festivals have been in the news for all the wrong reasons. Now your typical music festival has a start singer or a few, overpriced tickets, and tons of drugs and booze to help with the … Continue reading Why music festivals are overrated.