A reminder to why I game and why you should too.

Maybe a friendly reminder, who really knows what to call it. Lately, I have had to travel a lot for work and in one instance, I had dinner with my boss and employees at our client. Our clients are all guys in their thirties that are married with kids and as is my boss. This … Continue reading A reminder to why I game and why you should too.

A must read post about meeting women and dating for every guy in these trying times.

Ever since 2020 and the start of the pandemic, times have been tough and that is an understatement. We are dealing with inflation, massive lay-offs, and a potential recession on the horizon. Political divisions keep getting worse and it seems like every year, society is falling apart. It's different from the times a lot of … Continue reading A must read post about meeting women and dating for every guy in these trying times.

Why doing a lot of approaches means nothing.

“Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.”Albert Einsten All too often in the game community, people respect a guy for "approaching" and for doing a lot of approaches. A lot of dating coaches will run bootcamps where they are telling students to approach like mad men. Well, I am … Continue reading Why doing a lot of approaches means nothing.

Why my stance on cold approach and day game has changed.

For those of you who have been following my blog for a while, you know that I have not always been the biggest champion of cold approach. Even though I was not the biggest enemy of it, I was always trying to call out pickup artists as being sleazy and even proposing that things like … Continue reading Why my stance on cold approach and day game has changed.

Status: Why you must first accept who you really are.

So a topic that comes up a lot these days in regards to attracting women is the talk about status and being "cool". The reason I bring this up is because it is not only kind of personal to me but also personal to a lot of my readers. I feel like because I have … Continue reading Status: Why you must first accept who you really are.

10 lessons I’ve learned about women, dating, and relationships in my twenties.

Every year, I get closer to 30 and as I approach the new decade, I thought I'd share some of the lessons I have learned about women, dating, relationships, and "game" throughout my twenties. Now the post may get long and even have a part 2 to it if I feel like it is worth … Continue reading 10 lessons I’ve learned about women, dating, and relationships in my twenties.

Why you probably shouldn’t worry about male competition, PUAs and gender ratios.

After close to a year in a city that some consider to be highly competitive when it comes to dating and meeting women, I decided to make this post. You tend to hear it all the time really and guys are obsessed with the magic place they can go to where single women outnumber single … Continue reading Why you probably shouldn’t worry about male competition, PUAs and gender ratios.

Five blunt differences I’ve noticed between NYC’s social vibe vs Miami’s.

After a little over six months in Miami compared to quite a few years in NYC, I have had the chance to reflect and see how the vibes and scenes of the two cities stack up. I have done a post in the past comparing the two cities but now I want to take the … Continue reading Five blunt differences I’ve noticed between NYC’s social vibe vs Miami’s.