The unfortunate truths about dating apps in 2021.

Over the years, dating apps have become my most reliable way of meeting women. I found dating apps to be less awkward, protecting my ego from the rejections I'd experience with day game and the harsh ones from going out at night. In a way, it worked for me when I first got on them … Continue reading The unfortunate truths about dating apps in 2021.

Five reasons your dating life still sucks even after all the self-improvement

So you took the "pill" and decided to do things like hitting the gym, eating right, getting into shape, "learning game", and going on this whole journey to get better with women. Now a year has passed and sure, you may get a date here and there but deep down inside, you feel like you … Continue reading Five reasons your dating life still sucks even after all the self-improvement

The real reason you should not be satisfied with just “getting laid”.

In the age of PUA and "game", we have had this obsession with notch count which is something our respected writer Pablo talked about on his post. So I wanted to elaborate a bit more on why this obsession with lay count is problematic and why you should not just be satisfied with pumping and … Continue reading The real reason you should not be satisfied with just “getting laid”.

Know your market

I almost wanted to call it the number one rule of dating to be honest with you but then again, looks and confidence do matter a lot. In the past, we have talked a bit about what successful versus unsuccessful guys do differently when it comes to dating and pursuing women. Now one rule that … Continue reading Know your market

How I would actually coach single men.

A lot of material exists for single guys to get coaching on how to get better with women and be more attractive. I have also received email asking if I do consulting and coaching. Unfortunately for now, I have decided not to go that route due to a lack of time and because I am … Continue reading How I would actually coach single men.

What part of the world has the best looking women?

It's Friday night, maybe Saturday, and it's you and the guys. Everyone has a few beers and you go off to talking about random topics. If you are in a company of straight guys more on the masculine end, at some point you end up talking about women. At some point after talking about women, … Continue reading What part of the world has the best looking women?

See it as an investment

The past couple months of my life have been a bit different than usual, they have been quite unusual compared to what I am usually doing. For the first time in a long time, I have mostly ignored dating apps. The lockdowns have indoor dining closed in the city still but thankfully, the gyms are … Continue reading See it as an investment

A parallel between how the dating and business world have transformed.

Sales and marketing have a very strong parallel to game and attracting women as you get down to the specifics, for those of us who have been in the game long enough. "Generating leads" and "converting" them to where they want to buy has a lot of parallel to getting a girl to be interested … Continue reading A parallel between how the dating and business world have transformed.

What guys who win at the dating game do differently these days.

For those of you who had the chance to read my previous post about The Tale of Two Bachelors, you had the chance to see the difference between two younger guys. One was an aspiring pickup artist misled by the community trying to game while living with his parents and the other was a guy … Continue reading What guys who win at the dating game do differently these days.

A tale of two bachelors.

Sonny and Nick are two bachelors in their twenties, here is a tale of the two and how their lives differ. On a Saturday morning, Sonny wakes up as his mother tells him what is for breakfast. At the age of twenty-five, Sonny lives at home with his parents. After graduating school, he could not … Continue reading A tale of two bachelors.

Dating apps are quite reflective of your value whether you like it or not.

So lately, the trend in the pickup and game community has been to start hating dating apps. The reasoning goes that it does not give a man the chance to run "game" and online game isn't exactly "game". For starters, this is very telling of how far out of touch the game community has fallen … Continue reading Dating apps are quite reflective of your value whether you like it or not.