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Forget pickup, red pill, and “game”, only piece of dating advice you’ll ever need.

Over the years, I have learned what works and what doesn't work with dating and meeting women. I have seen movements and programs dedicated to coach young men with dating only to find that those same movements end up doing more harm to young men than good. When the blog started, I may have even… Continue reading Forget pickup, red pill, and “game”, only piece of dating advice you’ll ever need.

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What impact will proof of vaxx have on nightlife and social outings?

For those of you who live in NYC, you are now slowly adjusting to the reality that all indoor activities whether it is restaurants, gyms or nightclubs are going to require a proof of vaccination. I don't think that this is going to go away anytime soon and will likely stick around for years to… Continue reading What impact will proof of vaxx have on nightlife and social outings?

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An advice to all readers in these times, now is the time to be nimble!

August started and at the start of the month, I heard the news as a New Yorker. Proof of vaccination will be required in order to go to the gym or eat indoors at a restaurant along with a host of other events. Now this made NYC the first major city in the US to… Continue reading An advice to all readers in these times, now is the time to be nimble!

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Why I walked away from the partying and drinking lifestyle.

I hope all of my readers had a great weekend and have a lot of fun things to look forward to this week. Given that the weekend just ended, I thought I'd share something we all do on weekends whether habitually or time to time. When I first arrived in NYC, I would go out… Continue reading Why I walked away from the partying and drinking lifestyle.

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The night I learned the reality about Fraternity Life.

As those of you who know my story or have come across it spread across many posts, you know that I was never the popular frat boy type in college or even in any fraternities despite going to a school where it was big. When you go to school down south, Greek Life is about… Continue reading The night I learned the reality about Fraternity Life.

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Don’t focus on what city is best for dating.

Every now and then, you will get a report released highlighting gender ratios and what cities are best for men versus women when it comes to dating. A number of guys will move to a certain city only because they feel like it can change their dating life whether it is due to having more… Continue reading Don’t focus on what city is best for dating.

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Is it time to settle down after 30?

As I approach my thirties, I start to look at my future life. Yet, I am at a crossroads where for once, I cannot truthfully tell any of you that I have a correct answer. At the same time, this is the time right? I wake up every morning and while some of my health… Continue reading Is it time to settle down after 30?

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Toxic beliefs about dating and life I am glad I lost

“Watch your thoughts, they become words;watch your words, they become actions;watch your actions, they become habits;watch your habits, they become character;watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.”Lao Tzu (most likely) The powerful quote has been affiliated with a lot of different history figures but from my research, it seems to likely come from Lao… Continue reading Toxic beliefs about dating and life I am glad I lost

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Should you move to that world-class city you always dreamed of moving to?

For those of you who know my story and just the way I think about things, you know how much moving to NYC changed my life. In fact, I attribute moving to NYC as the single biggest thing that led to me changing in such a major way. Yet, as I think about it, was… Continue reading Should you move to that world-class city you always dreamed of moving to?