Why my stance on cold approach and day game has changed.

For those of you who have been following my blog for a while, you know that I have not always been the biggest champion of cold approach. Even though I was not the biggest enemy of it, I was always trying to call out pickup artists as being sleazy and even proposing that things like … Continue reading Why my stance on cold approach and day game has changed.

10 lessons I’ve learned about women, dating, and relationships in my twenties.

Every year, I get closer to 30 and as I approach the new decade, I thought I'd share some of the lessons I have learned about women, dating, relationships, and "game" throughout my twenties. Now the post may get long and even have a part 2 to it if I feel like it is worth … Continue reading 10 lessons I’ve learned about women, dating, and relationships in my twenties.

Why you must stop thinking that men peak at a later age.

So there is a common notion that gets told about how women age like milk and men age like fine wine. We are all also familiar with the chart by Rational Male around how men peak somewhere around their 30s. Now some will debate and say that this is not actually true at all and … Continue reading Why you must stop thinking that men peak at a later age.

3 things you can do daily to exponentially improve your swagger.

For some reason, I guess I don't like to use the word "game" too much because of how corny it sounds. If you like as my reader though, you can use the word "game" as well. So let's say you are either trying to get better at "game" or trying to really see where your … Continue reading 3 things you can do daily to exponentially improve your swagger.

How Black pill/Red Pill/PUA Community damage your brain and your game

So much of what we do is on the internet these days and that is all the more true for our interactions with other people. Today, I wanted to bring attention to the inevitable that most men will come across. Black Pill, Red Pill, and the PUA Community are once again gaining ground and despite … Continue reading How Black pill/Red Pill/PUA Community damage your brain and your game

Five of the biggest misconceptions about post-grad life.

While I do plan on doing an e-book and releasing it as it pertains to being a bachelor after college, I wanted to take this post to address some major misconceptions. Throughout your life, you have been told that college years are the best years of your life and life after college is practically all … Continue reading Five of the biggest misconceptions about post-grad life.

One of the most powerful feelings you will ever have as a single man.

At my old workplace, there was a guy named Jorge. Now my old workplace was kind of the stereotypical corporate boomer type of place where senior leadership played golf and everyone was trying to please them. Jorge was on my team which was mostly people in their twenties but I notice that he kept a … Continue reading One of the most powerful feelings you will ever have as a single man.

Signs that “dating advice” has poisoned your life.

I'll use the word dating advice loosely here but I am trying to say advice for men as it regards to getting better with women or just coping with not being successful with women. What are some signs that the advice has poisoned you and done you more harm than good? You are more bitter … Continue reading Signs that “dating advice” has poisoned your life.

The cold hard truth about pickup/”game” communities and forums.

As people, we are naturally inclined to find community. When we are miserable, it helps to have others who are miserable with us as well. The value in the community is that we are supposed to have others lift us up and help us become the best version of ourselves, right? Well, I used to … Continue reading The cold hard truth about pickup/”game” communities and forums.