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Most single men live plain boring lives.

I could have said most people live plain boring lives but that sounds so cliche. Now I work in a profession full of younger professionals, usually fresh out of college and in their twenties. Despite living in a big city, I’d say that almost half the guys I know are married or in a long-term relationship.  Now that leaves the rest […]

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Are American women really that bad?

Over the years, I have noticed that there is a tendency among men to (particularly American men) berate American or “western” women. After having had experiences with women of various nationalities and ethnic groups, I wanted to give my thoughts on whether the dislike for American women as well as the criticism they get is really that warranted. I have long […]

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Did you really miss out on that much?

For those of you who missed my last post regarding late bloomer woes, I wanted to propose a question. Did you really miss out on that much? The answer might not be as clear cut as it initially seems so let me put the context into it. For the purpose of this post, let us say that a “late bloomer” is […]

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Late Bloomer woes.

Been a while since I spoke with you guys so I wanted to kick things off with a topic I might be dedicating more posts to in the future. I want to speak on a topic relevant to guys who hit their stride a little bit later in life. For the purpose of this series, I am going define a […]

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A real man goes after what he wants.

Given the momentum of the week, I decided to go out on a Saturday night. I ended up getting a date with Alexis, ended in a make-out although I could not pull her home. The weather in the past week has hit hard in NYC, just the past Monday it hit night at 4 PM. With the sudden cold, I […]

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A wild night in East Village

At some point the past week I decided to give East Village, the tamer cousin of the Lower East Side, a chance and I started out with a good friend of mines who is also a wing at Beauty Bar. The place is kind of divey and I walk in to find it somewhat of a spot we can move […]

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I am getting too old for this.

Taking a new approaching here and telling you guys what goes on in my life. After a great month, I decided to go out on a weekday to have some fun and drink with a friend. We decided to hit up the Lower East Side, an area of the city known for being made for the fresh out of college […]

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The Hedonistic Glory

I am going to talk about an idea here that is new, unless someone talked about it in the past, an it is something that has stuck on my mind for years. The story starts back in my college days, as I’ll share more of my life story in future posts, I wanted to open up this old wound. I […]

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The “cool culture” and how it ruins cities.

The thing about high school is, it never ends…. Not long ago, I talked about what makes a city a horrible place for single men to date. While things such as the gender ratio were brought up, one point I mentioned was how “cool culture” plays such a big role in turning a city into a shit-show when it comes […]

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The guide to going out in NYC as a guy

Despite recent trends in this city which have seen people from areas like San Francisco come here in droves, gender ratio become more unfavorable for men, and some cultural changes; it is no doubt that NYC is still among the best cities in the country for a single guy. Being in NYC, you just cannot miss the nightlife in this […]

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How to get southern girls.

Alongside the West Coast and to some degree certain midwestern states, it can be argued that the south produces some of the best looking women in the entire country.  At times in my life I was a sucker for SEC girls, they seem to have that special kind of charm which is tough to rival. I’ll argue that when girls […]

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The problems is there are too many single men.

The United States of too many single men. I have constantly heard the rants about how modern times are so tough for a single guy, how the game is rigged, women are entitled, and it is so tough out there for a guy. Some blame feminism, some blame videogames, some blame the nature of women, some blame politics, and the […]

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Why I moved to NYC

Not long ago, I moved from Atlanta to NYC, the reasons for why I was so ready to leave Atlanta are better left to a different post. In almost a year in this city, I am starting to ask myself all of the tough questions. I have this city beat down so many aspiring people with high ambitions who wanted […]

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Why PUA ultimately failed

For those of you who were around during the time, PUA (Pick Up Artist) was a movement that focused on getting regular guys to be Hugh Hefner through a method called “game”. As the movement progressed, you found that it received a lot of backlash from society and turned into something that was berated on news with malls even banning […]