Reflections of a single guy in his twenties adjusting to life as a millennial
Throughout my life, largely due to a troubled youth, I struggled with major confidence issues. I blame a large part of this on abusive parenting, it is hard to recover from. Even now to some degree, while I do have confidence issues, I feel like I have come a long way from this epiphany. Many years ago, I signed up […]
I decided to do things differently today with my usual generalization/stereotype posts. Now if you were a fan of my post on European women and then on American women, you might like this post but we are doing things a bit differently here. I will not be rating women based on looks and personality, rather, I’ll be giving you a […]
TGIF Thank God It’s Friday, unless we are talking about going out to game and meet women. I used to believe that going out on Fridays was peak time for partying, socializing, and obviously meeting women but I was wrong. After years of going out, I have found that Friday is arguably among the worst days of the week to […]
As promised in my recent post, I decided to do a special for the US but due to the depth of it all, I will get right to it. As an American guy, here are my thoughts on American women from various parts of the country. If you enjoyed my post on European women, here is my post on American […]
In the past few years, I noticed a sense of negativity overcome me. I was a very negative guy and not someone who went out into the night with the best of moods. A part of it was I ran into a lot of bad experiences with people when I first started going out and that really killed my mood. […]
On a long enough timeline when you go out, whether it is with your date or just to pickup girls, you will start to run into aggressive men. Now on one hand, aggressive guys happen every once in a blue moon because most men rather avoid conflict. Getting into fights and conflicts requires a lot of energy and people rather […]
Due to the busy week I was not able to share with you guys the story of what happened with me the night after I had a fun night with a recruiter. So I decide to go out to an event an old friend had invited me to a party at more of a Happy Hour type of location. I […]
I decided to go at Saturday night a bit early than I wanted, thought I’d warm up a bit. What I decide to do is start with some approaches in the afternoon but quite frankly, day game has always felt a bit awkward for me. Despite the struggle, I push through a bit and try to make small talk with […]
I usually do not talk race but this is something I had to say. A lot of my good friends are Italian so I hold no ill-will towards any group but the content of this post will be very offensive, apologies in advance. A month ago I was starting out my night at one of my favorite bars in the […]
To cap off the series on late bloomer woes where we first talked about what it is and then talked about how bad it is. We even decided to dedicate a post to seeing the life of those on the other side of the fence. Now, we are going to spend this post on how to successfully deal with it […]
Continuing the series on late bloomer woes and talking about those who not only got to avoid it but in some cases were the aspiration (or envy) of late bloomers, I wanted to shed some light here. Ever since moving to one of the cities millions of popular kids in the country if not the world want to move to; […]
The past Saturday reminded me of a valuable life lesson which I wanted to share with some of you out there only our journey, the price you pay for not sticking to your game plan. My Saturdays are usually precious to me, I love to go out and really enjoy a fun night with friends as I do some approaches […]
Once in a while in life, you run into people that leave an impact on you. You see it in movies all the time when a guy tells a story about that one friend he remembers most or that one character. For me, one guy comes to mind as that character, Tim! When I first moved to NYC, I needed […]
Maybe I am getting old, who knows? The past weekend I went to a bar with a packed dance floor and I could barely hear a damn thing my wingman is saying. I don’t know how you even handle it or how I even handled it, to be frankly honest I don’t know when I was able to handle it. […]
Given the momentum of the week, I decided to go out on a Saturday night. I ended up getting a date with Alexis, ended in a make-out although I could not pull her home. The weather in the past week has hit hard in NYC, just the past Monday it hit night at 4 PM. With the sudden cold, I […]
At some point the past week I decided to give East Village, the tamer cousin of the Lower East Side, a chance and I started out with a good friend of mines who is also a wing at Beauty Bar. The place is kind of divey and I walk in to find it somewhat of a spot we can move […]
