I come to all of you today about something that has plagued me for a lot of my life and something I see affecting almost all men who get into the game. That something is called ego. I won't bother with a psychology lesson here and in terms of the way psychology would define "ego", … Continue reading The beauty of a dead ego
10 lessons I’ve learned about women, dating, and relationships in my twenties.
Every year, I get closer to 30 and as I approach the new decade, I thought I'd share some of the lessons I have learned about women, dating, relationships, and "game" throughout my twenties. Now the post may get long and even have a part 2 to it if I feel like it is worth … Continue reading 10 lessons I’ve learned about women, dating, and relationships in my twenties.
Why you must stop thinking that men peak at a later age.
So there is a common notion that gets told about how women age like milk and men age like fine wine. We are all also familiar with the chart by Rational Male around how men peak somewhere around their 30s. Now some will debate and say that this is not actually true at all and … Continue reading Why you must stop thinking that men peak at a later age.
3 things you can do daily to exponentially improve your swagger.
For some reason, I guess I don't like to use the word "game" too much because of how corny it sounds. If you like as my reader though, you can use the word "game" as well. So let's say you are either trying to get better at "game" or trying to really see where your … Continue reading 3 things you can do daily to exponentially improve your swagger.
How Black pill/Red Pill/PUA Community damage your brain and your game
So much of what we do is on the internet these days and that is all the more true for our interactions with other people. Today, I wanted to bring attention to the inevitable that most men will come across. Black Pill, Red Pill, and the PUA Community are once again gaining ground and despite … Continue reading How Black pill/Red Pill/PUA Community damage your brain and your game
The cold hard truth about pickup/”game” communities and forums.
As people, we are naturally inclined to find community. When we are miserable, it helps to have others who are miserable with us as well. The value in the community is that we are supposed to have others lift us up and help us become the best version of ourselves, right? Well, I used to … Continue reading The cold hard truth about pickup/”game” communities and forums.
My thoughts on going back to NYC.
Lately, I have been reflecting a bit about my future in regards to meeting women and partying. One thought that crept into my head is a potential return to Manhattan at some point in the future, obviously not this year. For those of you who have been keeping up with the news, apparently the infamous … Continue reading My thoughts on going back to NYC.
Some people are just beyond help.
When you aim to help people whether it is in dating or just about anything out there, you go out with good intentions. Now when you are new, you will always make a mistake that just about every newbie trying to help people makes. The mistake? You will try to help people that seem to … Continue reading Some people are just beyond help.
The truth about guys who say they can’t get laid because of their race.
In every pickup community and most communities with discussions that involve men trying to have dating success, race is something that commonly comes up. I've even seen men proactively invade forums and other places with the sole purpose of saying how you cannot have dating success because of your race or that you have to … Continue reading The truth about guys who say they can’t get laid because of their race.
Truth about guys that struggle with women even after all the self-improvement.
You learned another language, got wealthier, learned "game" by signing up for PUA classes, traveled the world, and even after all of that you struggle with dating. This story is more common than you believe and it can be discouraging to a lot of guys out there who are just starting out. After all, if … Continue reading Truth about guys that struggle with women even after all the self-improvement.
Things worrying me that I have no control over.
Stop worrying about what you can't control, a saying all of us have heard over and over and over again. I could use that saying in my life sometimes as well because in recent months, I too have fallen into worrying about things I have no control over. Thankfully, I was able to get a … Continue reading Things worrying me that I have no control over.
Inside the mind of a guy facing termination if he doesn’t get vaccinated
So I am going to share something with all of you that will make half of you stop reading my blog ever again, I am not vaccinated. Earlier in the year, I got COVID-19 and this was before the vaccine was FDA-approved. By the time I wanted to get it, even before approval, I was … Continue reading Inside the mind of a guy facing termination if he doesn’t get vaccinated