Why doing a lot of approaches means nothing.

“Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.”Albert Einsten All too often in the game community, people respect a guy for "approaching" and for doing a lot of approaches. A lot of dating coaches will run bootcamps where they are telling students to approach like mad men. Well, I am … Continue reading Why doing a lot of approaches means nothing.

Why my stance on cold approach and day game has changed.

For those of you who have been following my blog for a while, you know that I have not always been the biggest champion of cold approach. Even though I was not the biggest enemy of it, I was always trying to call out pickup artists as being sleazy and even proposing that things like … Continue reading Why my stance on cold approach and day game has changed.

Status: Why you must first accept who you really are.

So a topic that comes up a lot these days in regards to attracting women is the talk about status and being "cool". The reason I bring this up is because it is not only kind of personal to me but also personal to a lot of my readers. I feel like because I have … Continue reading Status: Why you must first accept who you really are.

10 lessons I’ve learned about women, dating, and relationships in my twenties.

Every year, I get closer to 30 and as I approach the new decade, I thought I'd share some of the lessons I have learned about women, dating, relationships, and "game" throughout my twenties. Now the post may get long and even have a part 2 to it if I feel like it is worth … Continue reading 10 lessons I’ve learned about women, dating, and relationships in my twenties.

Five blunt differences I’ve noticed between NYC’s social vibe vs Miami’s.

After a little over six months in Miami compared to quite a few years in NYC, I have had the chance to reflect and see how the vibes and scenes of the two cities stack up. I have done a post in the past comparing the two cities but now I want to take the … Continue reading Five blunt differences I’ve noticed between NYC’s social vibe vs Miami’s.

Why you must stop thinking that men peak at a later age.

So there is a common notion that gets told about how women age like milk and men age like fine wine. We are all also familiar with the chart by Rational Male around how men peak somewhere around their 30s. Now some will debate and say that this is not actually true at all and … Continue reading Why you must stop thinking that men peak at a later age.

Five of the biggest misconceptions about post-grad life.

While I do plan on doing an e-book and releasing it as it pertains to being a bachelor after college, I wanted to take this post to address some major misconceptions. Throughout your life, you have been told that college years are the best years of your life and life after college is practically all … Continue reading Five of the biggest misconceptions about post-grad life.

Signs that “dating advice” has poisoned your life.

I'll use the word dating advice loosely here but I am trying to say advice for men as it regards to getting better with women or just coping with not being successful with women. What are some signs that the advice has poisoned you and done you more harm than good? You are more bitter … Continue reading Signs that “dating advice” has poisoned your life.

My thoughts on going back to NYC.

Lately, I have been reflecting a bit about my future in regards to meeting women and partying. One thought that crept into my head is a potential return to Manhattan at some point in the future, obviously not this year. For those of you who have been keeping up with the news, apparently the infamous … Continue reading My thoughts on going back to NYC.

Truth about guys that struggle with women even after all the self-improvement.

You learned another language, got wealthier, learned "game" by signing up for PUA classes, traveled the world, and even after all of that you struggle with dating. This story is more common than you believe and it can be discouraging to a lot of guys out there who are just starting out. After all, if … Continue reading Truth about guys that struggle with women even after all the self-improvement.