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To everyone facing termination if they don’t get vaccinated.

A lot of my readers, even those working remote, are facing a situation where if they do not get vaccinated then they will lose their jobs. Almost all big companies are starting to comply with the mandate and push for all employees to present proof of vaccination or lose their jobs. I am facing this… Continue reading To everyone facing termination if they don’t get vaccinated.

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Find your one go to spot in public.

I find a lot of men are out and about in town just approaching random women, at least that is what pickup tells them to do. Now while this numbers game can lead to some success, I have found that it can also have you coming off as that creep. So how can you tie… Continue reading Find your one go to spot in public.

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Forget pickup, red pill, and “game”, only piece of dating advice you’ll ever need.

Over the years, I have learned what works and what doesn't work with dating and meeting women. I have seen movements and programs dedicated to coach young men with dating only to find that those same movements end up doing more harm to young men than good. When the blog started, I may have even… Continue reading Forget pickup, red pill, and “game”, only piece of dating advice you’ll ever need.

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An advice to all readers in these times, now is the time to be nimble!

August started and at the start of the month, I heard the news as a New Yorker. Proof of vaccination will be required in order to go to the gym or eat indoors at a restaurant along with a host of other events. Now this made NYC the first major city in the US to… Continue reading An advice to all readers in these times, now is the time to be nimble!

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Why NYC is no longer an ideal city for a bachelor

For the longest of time, I have raved about NYC being one of the best cities in the US for a single guy. Before the pandemic, NYC was one of the best cities in the world for a single guy. You saw an abundance of beautiful women from all parts of the world, a largely… Continue reading Why NYC is no longer an ideal city for a bachelor

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Life, politics, and how August has changed me.

For the longest time, ever since I really found this blog, I stood on the sidelines when it came to politics. I thought that nothing good can really come of it as violence, intimidation, and cancelling people who truly express how they feel has become the law of the land in American and even western… Continue reading Life, politics, and how August has changed me.

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Why I am seriously considering leaving NYC now

In the past, I have flirted with the idea of leaving NYC despite the countless good experiences I had in the city. Even then, deep down inside I felt as if it would still take something catastrophic for me to really consider it for good. After all, NYC is one of if not the few… Continue reading Why I am seriously considering leaving NYC now

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Signs that it is time to quit the drinking and partying lifestyle.

Throughout this week, I have been talking about my experiences with the drinking and partying lifestyle and what led me to quit. Now I have a lot of readers who go out a lot at nights and I encourage this, a lot. As I have said repeatedly, there is a difference between going out to… Continue reading Signs that it is time to quit the drinking and partying lifestyle.

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Why it is actually harder to meet new women when you live the party lifestyle.

For those of you who had the chance to read about my decision to quit the party lifestyle recently, I thought I'd share even more on why it is tougher to meet women in that lifestyle. Now once again, I define this lifestyle as not exactly going out and drinking. I highly recommend men go… Continue reading Why it is actually harder to meet new women when you live the party lifestyle.

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Why I walked away from the partying and drinking lifestyle.

I hope all of my readers had a great weekend and have a lot of fun things to look forward to this week. Given that the weekend just ended, I thought I'd share something we all do on weekends whether habitually or time to time. When I first arrived in NYC, I would go out… Continue reading Why I walked away from the partying and drinking lifestyle.

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Why nightclubs are overrated.

When I first started going out, nightclubs were the places to be if you wanted to meet women and take a girl home the same night you met her. After all, when you are new to going out, you want to get that loud music and alcohol in your system so you can appreciate the… Continue reading Why nightclubs are overrated.