Reflections of a single guy in his twenties adjusting to life as a millennial
As promised in my recent post, I decided to do a special for the US but due to the depth of it all, I will get right to it. As an American guy, here are my thoughts on American women from various parts of the country. If you enjoyed my post on European women, here is my post on American […]
Over the years, I have noticed that there is a tendency among men to (particularly American men) berate American or “western” women. After having had experiences with women of various nationalities and ethnic groups, I wanted to give my thoughts on whether the dislike for American women as well as the criticism they get is really that warranted. I have long […]
Does it get harder? Does it get easier? The answer is not exactly straightforward, it is something that is very case by case. From my experience, it is different in many ways after college which might favor some men that would have otherwise struggled in college. I do think that there are also some things that remain the same in […]
On a long enough timeline when you go out, whether it is with your date or just to pickup girls, you will start to run into aggressive men. Now on one hand, aggressive guys happen every once in a blue moon because most men rather avoid conflict. Getting into fights and conflicts requires a lot of energy and people rather […]
So this is a post I have been wanting to do for quite some time but never got around to it until now. My opinion here comes from travel experiences to various European countries as well as living in international cities that drew a lot of European tourists and expats. I cannot promise that everyone will be happy with this […]
Due to the busy week I was not able to share with you guys the story of what happened with me the night after I had a fun night with a recruiter. So I decide to go out to an event an old friend had invited me to a party at more of a Happy Hour type of location. I […]
So it was quite a busy week for me a week ago and it started Tuesday with a networking event. I didn’t have wild aspirations for much of anything and I can barely write out much about it other than the fact that as a man, you need to go for it when the opportunity is there. As soon as […]
I decided to go at Saturday night a bit early than I wanted, thought I’d warm up a bit. What I decide to do is start with some approaches in the afternoon but quite frankly, day game has always felt a bit awkward for me. Despite the struggle, I push through a bit and try to make small talk with […]
I usually do not talk race but this is something I had to say. A lot of my good friends are Italian so I hold no ill-will towards any group but the content of this post will be very offensive, apologies in advance. A month ago I was starting out my night at one of my favorite bars in the […]
To cap off the series on late bloomer woes where we first talked about what it is and then talked about how bad it is. We even decided to dedicate a post to seeing the life of those on the other side of the fence. Now, we are going to spend this post on how to successfully deal with it […]
For those of you who missed my last post regarding late bloomer woes, I wanted to propose a question. Did you really miss out on that much? The answer might not be as clear cut as it initially seems so let me put the context into it. For the purpose of this post, let us say that a “late bloomer” is […]
Been a while since I spoke with you guys so I wanted to kick things off with a topic I might be dedicating more posts to in the future. I want to speak on a topic relevant to guys who hit their stride a little bit later in life. For the purpose of this series, I am going define a […]
A while ago, one guy who I look up to as almost a mentor asked me a question that sticks with me to this day, this is the very question I want to ask all of you: “What are you willing to bleed for?” Now the question sounds very intense and it no doubt sounds kind of intimidating but think […]
In recent posts, you guys have had the chance to really know me and what goes on in my life instead of listening to theories. I’ll go back to big picture ideas soon but for now, I wanted to share a story of a date that changed my life forever and taught me a lesson I will never forget. The […]
Given the momentum of the week, I decided to go out on a Saturday night. I ended up getting a date with Alexis, ended in a make-out although I could not pull her home. The weather in the past week has hit hard in NYC, just the past Monday it hit night at 4 PM. With the sudden cold, I […]
At some point the past week I decided to give East Village, the tamer cousin of the Lower East Side, a chance and I started out with a good friend of mines who is also a wing at Beauty Bar. The place is kind of divey and I walk in to find it somewhat of a spot we can move […]
