The most underrated rule of dating: Lose Fast

What is the most valuable resource in this world? What resource is so valuable that unlike money, once you lose it, you can never get it back? What if I was to tell you young men out there that even men like Warren Buffet envy you for having this resource while they do not? The … Continue reading The most underrated rule of dating: Lose Fast

Find your one go to spot in public.

I find a lot of men are out and about in town just approaching random women, at least that is what pickup tells them to do. Now while this numbers game can lead to some success, I have found that it can also have you coming off as that creep. So how can you tie … Continue reading Find your one go to spot in public.

Forget pickup, red pill, and “game”, only piece of dating advice you’ll ever need.

Over the years, I have learned what works and what doesn't work with dating and meeting women. I have seen movements and programs dedicated to coach young men with dating only to find that those same movements end up doing more harm to young men than good. When the blog started, I may have even … Continue reading Forget pickup, red pill, and “game”, only piece of dating advice you’ll ever need.

Why it is actually harder to meet new women when you live the party lifestyle.

For those of you who had the chance to read about my decision to quit the party lifestyle recently, I thought I'd share even more on why it is tougher to meet women in that lifestyle. Now once again, I define this lifestyle as not exactly going out and drinking. I highly recommend men go … Continue reading Why it is actually harder to meet new women when you live the party lifestyle.

Why nightclubs are overrated.

When I first started going out, nightclubs were the places to be if you wanted to meet women and take a girl home the same night you met her. After all, when you are new to going out, you want to get that loud music and alcohol in your system so you can appreciate the … Continue reading Why nightclubs are overrated.

Don’t focus on what city is best for dating.

Every now and then, you will get a report released highlighting gender ratios and what cities are best for men versus women when it comes to dating. A number of guys will move to a certain city only because they feel like it can change their dating life whether it is due to having more … Continue reading Don’t focus on what city is best for dating.

Toxic beliefs about dating and life I am glad I lost

β€œWatch your thoughts, they become words;watch your words, they become actions;watch your actions, they become habits;watch your habits, they become character;watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.”Lao Tzu (most likely) The powerful quote has been affiliated with a lot of different history figures but from my research, it seems to likely come from Lao … Continue reading Toxic beliefs about dating and life I am glad I lost

Politically incorrect observations about NYC nightlife.

As the city reopens, officially in July, I think back to the years I spent going out in Manhattan before COVID-19 hit. What amazed me is that even in those years, some things just never really changed. I will say that even as the city reopens, I will observe the same politically incorrect things to … Continue reading Politically incorrect observations about NYC nightlife.

Your end goal if you remain a bachelor.

I am going to assume that if you are still reading this blog, most of you do not want to get married and have kids. In my previous post, I stated why the red pill does not help you long-term. Now, unfortunately, at some point, you are going to get to that age where meeting … Continue reading Your end goal if you remain a bachelor.

Why I do this.

For any of you who have been following my site, you may have noticed that after a busy January, there were hardly any posts this month. The reason is, I have just been so bogged down with work and life in general that I barely had the time to post. Many don't understand how tough … Continue reading Why I do this.

Lessons I learned after succeeding with women who were my “type”

In my last post, I posed a question about whether men should go for women who are naturally going to be into them (even if the women are not their type) or go for their "type" even if their "type" does not consider them to be a top option. For those of you who have … Continue reading Lessons I learned after succeeding with women who were my “type”