Reflections of a single guy in his twenties adjusting to life as a millennial
A while ago, one guy who I look up to as almost a mentor asked me a question that sticks with me to this day, this is the very question I want to ask all of you: “What are you willing to bleed for?” Now the question sounds very intense and it no doubt sounds kind of intimidating but think […]
In recent posts, you guys have had the chance to really know me and what goes on in my life instead of listening to theories. I’ll go back to big picture ideas soon but for now, I wanted to share a story of a date that changed my life forever and taught me a lesson I will never forget. The […]
Given the momentum of the week, I decided to go out on a Saturday night. I ended up getting a date with Alexis, ended in a make-out although I could not pull her home. The weather in the past week has hit hard in NYC, just the past Monday it hit night at 4 PM. With the sudden cold, I […]
At some point the past week I decided to give East Village, the tamer cousin of the Lower East Side, a chance and I started out with a good friend of mines who is also a wing at Beauty Bar. The place is kind of divey and I walk in to find it somewhat of a spot we can move […]
I am going to talk about an idea here that is new, unless someone talked about it in the past, an it is something that has stuck on my mind for years. The story starts back in my college days, as I’ll share more of my life story in future posts, I wanted to open up this old wound. I […]
The thing about high school is, it never ends…. Not long ago, I talked about what makes a city a horrible place for single men to date. While things such as the gender ratio were brought up, one point I mentioned was how “cool culture” plays such a big role in turning a city into a shit-show when it comes […]
Anyone with years of experience in dating knows that location is arguably among the most important aspects of having a successful dating life and some cities are just a lot better than others when it comes down to it. I want to dedicate this post to speaking about a city I went to high school in, spent a couple years […]
Alongside the West Coast and to some degree certain midwestern states, it can be argued that the south produces some of the best looking women in the entire country. At times in my life I was a sucker for SEC girls, they seem to have that special kind of charm which is tough to rival. I’ll argue that when girls […]
We beat around the bush with race but the truth of the matter is that it actually matters as more posts I make in the future will discuss. One old stereotype I have heard time and time again is that white girls are “easy” and after years in the game, I kind of wanted to talk about this. For reference, […]
Certain cities, among younger men, have earned a reputation as being a great place for meeting single women. The cities in North America that get thrown around a lot in this mix are Montreal, Miami, and obviously New York City. I feel like a lot of these things almost come and go in cycles but I recently had a sit […]
The United States of too many single men. I have constantly heard the rants about how modern times are so tough for a single guy, how the game is rigged, women are entitled, and it is so tough out there for a guy. Some blame feminism, some blame videogames, some blame the nature of women, some blame politics, and the […]
Not long ago, I moved from Atlanta to NYC, the reasons for why I was so ready to leave Atlanta are better left to a different post. In almost a year in this city, I am starting to ask myself all of the tough questions. I have this city beat down so many aspiring people with high ambitions who wanted […]
So there is a belief going around, particularly from more of the “red pill” type of crowd that it gets easier for men as we get older. The red pill, particularly The Rational Male as one of the writers, sold us on the belief that men age like fine wine and women age like milk. The idea behind it all […]
For those of you who were around during the time, PUA (Pick Up Artist) was a movement that focused on getting regular guys to be Hugh Hefner through a method called “game”. As the movement progressed, you found that it received a lot of backlash from society and turned into something that was berated on news with malls even banning […]
Over the years, I have seen a lot of men go through the whole PUA, dating coach, red pill, and game programs only to walk away empty-handed or without the results they wanted. In this context, we are not talking about getting the girlfriend of your dream or the happy family life, we are talking more about being in a […]
In a previous post (link), I talk about the impact that your job and career choice have in how well you do in the game. One of the biggest takeaways from the post was that it is not even the job itself that makes you undesirable but all that goes into the job such as the kinds of people you […]
