Reflections of a single guy in his twenties adjusting to life as a millennial
After reading posts on dating and masculinity forums over the years and having talked to a few men, I found a very troubling trend I wanted to address. All too often, I see a guy mention the following things and ask for dating advice: Still living with parents after the age of 21 Still not gainfully employed No career or […]
One idea that a lot of the masculine movements got across the head of men was that somehow, women were the opposition, it was an “us vs. them” kind of mentality. We have all heard the saying of “bros before hoes”. I am here to tell you that it isn’t really a war of the genders out there and that […]
Given the news recently, we are in a time where restaurants and bars are shut down other than for delivery orders. The streets are relatively empty and for the next month or so, we will have a situation where the country will more or less be on lockdown. For the typical reader who likes going out on weekends and enjoying the […]
Unless you live under a rock, and even then, you have probably heard a lot about the Coronavirus situation. While initially considered by some to be a minor virus, it has led to a developed country being under quarantine. For my fellow Americans, we are starting to see companies freezing the hiring of new candidates, layoffs occurring more often, certain […]
The Coronavirus has taken the country by storm in the recent weeks. Despite the overall empty landscape in the largest city in America, I went out to a rooftop I really like and found that it had just enough people in it. I see this tall blonde who was not bad looking at all, she had a distinct look to […]
One belief that has spread throughout masculine spaces is that the dating game gets better for men with age while it gets worse for women. A saying out there goes that men age like fine wine while women age like milk. I see this fantasy being sold to younger men everywhere about the beauty of getting older as a guy […]
The overlap between sales and dating is quite strong, especially when it comes to actually attracting women. Now like any other profession out there, sales has also evolved a bit from the good old days of cold calling until someone took a meeting with you to something more sophisticated. For my current work, a lot of what I do basically […]
Throughout my life, largely due to a troubled youth, I struggled with major confidence issues. I blame a large part of this on abusive parenting, it is hard to recover from. Even now to some degree, while I do have confidence issues, I feel like I have come a long way from this epiphany. Many years ago, I signed up […]
I decided to do things differently today with my usual generalization/stereotype posts. Now if you were a fan of my post on European women and then on American women, you might like this post but we are doing things a bit differently here. I will not be rating women based on looks and personality, rather, I’ll be giving you a […]
Ignorance is bliss I sometimes go a little bit off the deep end when it comes to talking about dating and game as you have seen from my theory posts. Well, here is the reality of it all, they’re really just theory. I have thoughts that come to mind sometimes and I share them. For all I know, I could […]
In my last post, I talked about how most single men live boring lives. In this post, I want to talk about how the winners, alpha males, and men who truly “make it” do things differently. Over the years, I have had the chance to be around the kind of guys some would consider a “Chad” or “Alpha” or “Slayer”, they […]
I could have said most people live plain boring lives but that sounds so cliche. Now I work in a profession full of younger professionals, usually fresh out of college and in their twenties. Despite living in a big city, I’d say that almost half the guys I know are married or in a long-term relationship. Now that leaves the rest […]
For those of you who watched the Super Bowl, you probably had a chance to see the Chiefs hold their heads high as they marched to victory. While I applaud the effort the 49ers put in, Patrick Mahomes II is really something else. So while I can applaud the 49ers for their effort, I cannot applaud the city of San […]
I am going to assume that if you took the time to find this blog and read my posts, you’re not the average guy. You probably don’t want the cookie cutter life of getting married young to some average girl out there as you go off to buy a house with a picket fence and a Golden Retriever. Instead, you […]
I was going to title this post the harsh truth about favorable options for meeting women but that would have been far too long and confusing of a title. Today we are going to about the harsh truth of favorable avenues, places, and “hobbies/activities” for meeting women. When I say favorable, I mean avenues that give you a shortcut or […]
As promised in my recent post, I decided to do a special for the US but due to the depth of it all, I will get right to it. As an American guy, here are my thoughts on American women from various parts of the country. If you enjoyed my post on European women, here is my post on American […]
