I lost a lot of friends and here’s why I can’t be happier.

After moving to and finally settling in a new city, I am glad to finally get back to you guys. Lots of big things coming for you all to look forward to. Around your late twenties, they say that your social life declines. Apparently, people associate their late-twenties with the depression that comes from losing … Continue reading I lost a lot of friends and here’s why I can’t be happier.

Toxic beliefs about dating and life I am glad I lost

“Watch your thoughts, they become words;watch your words, they become actions;watch your actions, they become habits;watch your habits, they become character;watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.”Lao Tzu (most likely) The powerful quote has been affiliated with a lot of different history figures but from my research, it seems to likely come from Lao … Continue reading Toxic beliefs about dating and life I am glad I lost

Things I wish I would have done in my twenties.

One of the few things that still gets me to this day is how quickly my twenties have flown by but thankfully I still have a couple more years left. Some say that it is by far the most important decade of your entire life and I am still not at the point where I … Continue reading Things I wish I would have done in my twenties.

How having a good career and money can actually help you get laid.

“Money doesn’t just buy you a better life—better food, better cars, better pussy—it also makes you a better person. You can give generously to the church of your choice or the political party. You can save the fuckin’ spotted owl with money,” - Jordan Belfort (played by DiCaprio) on the Wolf of Wall Street movie … Continue reading How having a good career and money can actually help you get laid.

How to actually grow your social life.

In my previous post, I talked about why having some sort of a social life is actually a key part of having the results you want with women. Given the name of the site, this is more geared towards growing your social life as a bachelor and not someone who is married or in an … Continue reading How to actually grow your social life.

Why older guys actually don’t have an advantage.

One belief that has spread throughout masculine spaces is that the dating game gets better for men with age while it gets worse for women. A saying out there goes that men age like fine wine while women age like milk. I see this fantasy being sold to younger men everywhere about the beauty of … Continue reading Why older guys actually don’t have an advantage.

Most single men live plain boring lives.

I could have said most people live plain boring lives but that sounds so cliche. Now I work in a profession full of younger professionals, usually fresh out of college and in their twenties. Despite living in a big city, I'd say that almost half the guys I know are married or in a long-term relationship.  … Continue reading Most single men live plain boring lives.

Looking back at 2019 and looking forward to the roaring 20s!

So we are almost halfway into the month and I did not even get to wish you guys a Happy New Years. Quite frankly, I have not been the biggest fan of the New Years Resolutions. In my view, you either do it or you either don't, it should not take a New Year and … Continue reading Looking back at 2019 and looking forward to the roaring 20s!

How dating actually changes for a guy after college.

Does it get harder? Does it get easier? The answer is not exactly straightforward, it is something that is very case by case. From my experience, it is different in many ways after college which might favor some men that would have otherwise struggled in college. I do think that there are also some things … Continue reading How dating actually changes for a guy after college.