Tough and uncomfortable discussions are a test of character and unveil a lot.

In recent years, as I have peeked over certain discussions that happen in male centered spaces around some "touchy" topics, I have seen something troubling happening. What happens is that such discussions that center around things like race and looks are promptly shut down because they are "unproductive". After-all, since you cannot change your race … Continue reading Tough and uncomfortable discussions are a test of character and unveil a lot.

The truth for virgins and late bloomers.

I have received a lot of emails ever since the blog started to take off from men who were a bit late to the game. Common reasons include repressive upbringings due to the parents (or parent) that they had, growing up in a very conservative environment or culture, and not developing themselves socially/physically while growing … Continue reading The truth for virgins and late bloomers.

The bachelor takes a break and reflects.

As many of you who have kept up with my story may know, in the past few years I've not only been living in Manhattan, but also living in one of its more lively areas. Imagine an entire area where majority of the demographic is people fresh out of college up to maybe their late-twenties … Continue reading The bachelor takes a break and reflects.

Why this won’t be a pickup artist blog.

I've taken somewhat of a break in recent days, not posting as frequently as I should, and I was tasked with the question of what I want this blog to be. Now I've made it no secret that a lot of this blog does center on dating and meeting women, the name of the site … Continue reading Why this won’t be a pickup artist blog.

Recent observations of NYC during COVID-19.

Last week, after exhausting hours at work, I decided to take a walk around Manhattan and made my way to one of the most vibrant areas of the city. Now if you were to believe the reports coming out of the media and read the stories on the internet, you would have thought that NYC … Continue reading Recent observations of NYC during COVID-19.

Winners treated it as offseason while losers treated it as a lockdown.

As lockdowns end and even NYC enters phase 2, soon to enter phase 3, I have been beyond annoyed in recent months from guys whining about the lockdown. Now it usually takes a good bit to get me annoyed to where I have to speak out but man, even when some of my close friends … Continue reading Winners treated it as offseason while losers treated it as a lockdown.

Things I wish I would have done in my twenties.

One of the few things that still gets me to this day is how quickly my twenties have flown by but thankfully I still have a couple more years left. Some say that it is by far the most important decade of your entire life and I am still not at the point where I … Continue reading Things I wish I would have done in my twenties.