Reflections of a single guy in his twenties adjusting to life as a millennial
A while ago, one guy who I look up to as almost a mentor asked me a question that sticks with me to this day, this is the very question I want to ask all of you: “What are you willing to bleed for?” Now the question sounds very intense and it no doubt sounds kind of intimidating but think […]
In recent posts, you guys have had the chance to really know me and what goes on in my life instead of listening to theories. I’ll go back to big picture ideas soon but for now, I wanted to share a story of a date that changed my life forever and taught me a lesson I will never forget. The […]
I have long thought about what makes some cities in the country such great spots for single men while other cities are hell for a single guy. For me it was always puzzling why Toronto and San Francisco were hell on earth for most single men while Miami and NYC were prime spots. At a glance, the question seems quite […]
Alongside the West Coast and to some degree certain midwestern states, it can be argued that the south produces some of the best looking women in the entire country. At times in my life I was a sucker for SEC girls, they seem to have that special kind of charm which is tough to rival. I’ll argue that when girls […]
We beat around the bush with race but the truth of the matter is that it actually matters as more posts I make in the future will discuss. One old stereotype I have heard time and time again is that white girls are “easy” and after years in the game, I kind of wanted to talk about this. For reference, […]
The United States of too many single men. I have constantly heard the rants about how modern times are so tough for a single guy, how the game is rigged, women are entitled, and it is so tough out there for a guy. Some blame feminism, some blame videogames, some blame the nature of women, some blame politics, and the […]
So there is a belief going around, particularly from more of the “red pill” type of crowd that it gets easier for men as we get older. The red pill, particularly The Rational Male as one of the writers, sold us on the belief that men age like fine wine and women age like milk. The idea behind it all […]
Over the years, I have seen a lot of men go through the whole PUA, dating coach, red pill, and game programs only to walk away empty-handed or without the results they wanted. In this context, we are not talking about getting the girlfriend of your dream or the happy family life, we are talking more about being in a […]
In a previous post (link), I talk about the impact that your job and career choice have in how well you do in the game. One of the biggest takeaways from the post was that it is not even the job itself that makes you undesirable but all that goes into the job such as the kinds of people you […]
We were all taught growing up that working the typical white collar job that society respects such as banker, engineer, lawyer, doctor, and any job that makes you proud will generally be a benefit with dating. After all, women do love to end up with a guy who has his “shit together” or is more well put-together compared to a […]
One other way someone will ask this is what makes a city a good place for “game”. In the future, I will be doing a topic on what my top five cities for men are in North America but before I did that, I wanted to set the standards. I will also be doing a thread on what the worst […]
The date has been going well, attraction is there, and now comes the moment. You get this window of opportunity to make the difference between taking her home for the night or you go home empty handed. Now comes the time for the close! Lose the shame. Lose the shame of taking her home, the truth is, people fuck and […]
“Walk a mile in my shoes…..” As the saying goes. A few years ago, for the life of me, I could not get many matches on a lot of dating apps. In fact, I would be lucky to get a match on Tinder period. My photos sucked, I mean they really sucked, and that was the reason why. My profile […]
Just yesterday, and by that I mean 2012, Tinder was the only dating app on the market and it was the “in” thing. Now, seven years later, the market is crowded with dating apps for a variety of people and purposes. Slowly but surely, the dating app market is being crowded with every new dating app being the “it” thing. […]
