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Find your one go to spot in public.

I find a lot of men are out and about in town just approaching random women, at least that is what pickup tells them to do. Now while this numbers game can lead to some success, I have found that it can also have you coming off as that creep. So how can you tie… Continue reading Find your one go to spot in public.

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Why I talk about politics and society more.

For those of you who have been following my blog long enough, you know that this originally started as a blog meant for dating advice and semi-red pill sort of things. Lately, I have started to talk more and more about politics to the point that I rarely talk about dating advice as much anymore.… Continue reading Why I talk about politics and society more.

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Forget pickup, red pill, and “game”, only piece of dating advice you’ll ever need.

Over the years, I have learned what works and what doesn't work with dating and meeting women. I have seen movements and programs dedicated to coach young men with dating only to find that those same movements end up doing more harm to young men than good. When the blog started, I may have even… Continue reading Forget pickup, red pill, and “game”, only piece of dating advice you’ll ever need.

culture · dating · politics · psychology

Why the California recall election is one of the most culturally significant moments of the century.

This is one of the most controversial articles I will write. I do want all readers to know that for one, I am not really a right wing Republican, in fact I've leaned left most of my life on social issues such as abortion, affirmative action and gay marriage. When I use words like "accountability",… Continue reading Why the California recall election is one of the most culturally significant moments of the century.

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What impact will proof of vaxx have on nightlife and social outings?

For those of you who live in NYC, you are now slowly adjusting to the reality that all indoor activities whether it is restaurants, gyms or nightclubs are going to require a proof of vaccination. I don't think that this is going to go away anytime soon and will likely stick around for years to… Continue reading What impact will proof of vaxx have on nightlife and social outings?

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An advice to all readers in these times, now is the time to be nimble!

August started and at the start of the month, I heard the news as a New Yorker. Proof of vaccination will be required in order to go to the gym or eat indoors at a restaurant along with a host of other events. Now this made NYC the first major city in the US to… Continue reading An advice to all readers in these times, now is the time to be nimble!

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Alternatives to partying hard if you want have fun and meet people.

In recent days, I have spent my time telling you why I quit the party lifestyle and why it is not really all that conductive to meeting new women. I would not leave any of you out in the dust wondering what better alternatives look like so today, I am going to focus on those… Continue reading Alternatives to partying hard if you want have fun and meet people.

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Signs that it is time to quit the drinking and partying lifestyle.

Throughout this week, I have been talking about my experiences with the drinking and partying lifestyle and what led me to quit. Now I have a lot of readers who go out a lot at nights and I encourage this, a lot. As I have said repeatedly, there is a difference between going out to… Continue reading Signs that it is time to quit the drinking and partying lifestyle.

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Why it is actually harder to meet new women when you live the party lifestyle.

For those of you who had the chance to read about my decision to quit the party lifestyle recently, I thought I'd share even more on why it is tougher to meet women in that lifestyle. Now once again, I define this lifestyle as not exactly going out and drinking. I highly recommend men go… Continue reading Why it is actually harder to meet new women when you live the party lifestyle.

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Why I walked away from the partying and drinking lifestyle.

I hope all of my readers had a great weekend and have a lot of fun things to look forward to this week. Given that the weekend just ended, I thought I'd share something we all do on weekends whether habitually or time to time. When I first arrived in NYC, I would go out… Continue reading Why I walked away from the partying and drinking lifestyle.