“Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.”Albert Einsten All too often in the game community, people respect a guy for "approaching" and for doing a lot of approaches. A lot of dating coaches will run bootcamps where they are telling students to approach like mad men. Well, I am … Continue reading Why doing a lot of approaches means nothing.
The Pickup Artist infestation of Miami
Readers, as promised, I will now be posting more about my experiences out in the world rather than theories and do I have a story for you. Now I am still deciding on how to best segment these posts, whether I create another section of the site entirely or what. For now, I will just … Continue reading The Pickup Artist infestation of Miami
Why my stance on cold approach and day game has changed.
For those of you who have been following my blog for a while, you know that I have not always been the biggest champion of cold approach. Even though I was not the biggest enemy of it, I was always trying to call out pickup artists as being sleazy and even proposing that things like … Continue reading Why my stance on cold approach and day game has changed.
Status: Why you must first accept who you really are.
So a topic that comes up a lot these days in regards to attracting women is the talk about status and being "cool". The reason I bring this up is because it is not only kind of personal to me but also personal to a lot of my readers. I feel like because I have … Continue reading Status: Why you must first accept who you really are.
10 lessons I’ve learned about women, dating, and relationships in my twenties.
Every year, I get closer to 30 and as I approach the new decade, I thought I'd share some of the lessons I have learned about women, dating, relationships, and "game" throughout my twenties. Now the post may get long and even have a part 2 to it if I feel like it is worth … Continue reading 10 lessons I’ve learned about women, dating, and relationships in my twenties.
Why you probably shouldn’t worry about male competition, PUAs and gender ratios.
After close to a year in a city that some consider to be highly competitive when it comes to dating and meeting women, I decided to make this post. You tend to hear it all the time really and guys are obsessed with the magic place they can go to where single women outnumber single … Continue reading Why you probably shouldn’t worry about male competition, PUAs and gender ratios.
Five blunt differences I’ve noticed between NYC’s social vibe vs Miami’s.
After a little over six months in Miami compared to quite a few years in NYC, I have had the chance to reflect and see how the vibes and scenes of the two cities stack up. I have done a post in the past comparing the two cities but now I want to take the … Continue reading Five blunt differences I’ve noticed between NYC’s social vibe vs Miami’s.
What I’ve seen happen to men who learn “game”.
Many years ago, I went on the journey to learn "game" and it was one that took me down the path of listening to Pickup Artists, Red Pill writers, and at some point even taking a stab at the Black Pill. While I do not associate with any of those things anymore, I have kept … Continue reading What I’ve seen happen to men who learn “game”.
Why most single men should avoid Miami.
After a few months in Miami, I am here to give my input on the city's dating scene. Before I do, I want to talk about my situation in Miami. I am actually loving it here. My dating life has not been too bad in Miami and I am loving life in general. Miami has … Continue reading Why most single men should avoid Miami.
Why you must stop thinking that men peak at a later age.
So there is a common notion that gets told about how women age like milk and men age like fine wine. We are all also familiar with the chart by Rational Male around how men peak somewhere around their 30s. Now some will debate and say that this is not actually true at all and … Continue reading Why you must stop thinking that men peak at a later age.
3 things you can do daily to exponentially improve your swagger.
For some reason, I guess I don't like to use the word "game" too much because of how corny it sounds. If you like as my reader though, you can use the word "game" as well. So let's say you are either trying to get better at "game" or trying to really see where your … Continue reading 3 things you can do daily to exponentially improve your swagger.
How Black pill/Red Pill/PUA Community damage your brain and your game
So much of what we do is on the internet these days and that is all the more true for our interactions with other people. Today, I wanted to bring attention to the inevitable that most men will come across. Black Pill, Red Pill, and the PUA Community are once again gaining ground and despite … Continue reading How Black pill/Red Pill/PUA Community damage your brain and your game