gratitude will save your dating life

I have a very bad habit which, while it has led me to a lot of pain, has also somehow helped me build a great dating life for myself. The truth is, when it comes to women, I am an ungrateful piece of shit and have been for the longest of times. I could be … Continue reading gratitude will save your dating life

Do cities with tough dating environments really produce men that are good with women?

A couple years ago, I was hanging out with a friend and his cousin from Toronto. Now for those of you who are not aware, it is considered one of the toughest cities in North America for dating and meeting women. The reasons are plentiful but they involve things such as: Pickup culture that results … Continue reading Do cities with tough dating environments really produce men that are good with women?

One of the worst things you can do: keep digging

Hey everyone, I am glad to be back after a very long hiatus. I'd say life really got to me and I had way too much on my plate. Some things went by the wayside and I got overwhelmed, it was all too much really. Work had become more intense than ever and it got … Continue reading One of the worst things you can do: keep digging

What if it had all gone according to plan?

Regret, thoughts of the past, and feeling underwhelmed by how your life has played out are feelings we all experience from time to time. I used to be full of regret, anger, bitterness, and sadness due to how my life played out in my youth. Your youth can be an uncertain time because so much … Continue reading What if it had all gone according to plan?

Never pay attention to what they say, only what they do.

A while ago, I worked a role where I managed a lot of projects. On those projects and opportunities, I had to work with three different consultants. My success to my boss and leadership was determined by how those consultants would rate the progression of the projects which means that if they gave a good … Continue reading Never pay attention to what they say, only what they do.

Why some guys should stop having a “type” when it comes to women.

A while ago, I wrote about the importance of knowing your market. Now the most ideal situation one can have is when you have a "type" and that "type" is known to love guys with your kind of a look. For example, a white guy with a thing for Asian girls is set for the … Continue reading Why some guys should stop having a “type” when it comes to women.

Not another Long Island!

The song that still sticks to my head from that night.... Being in lockdown mode just reminds me of the nights spent going out back in 2019. To some degree, while I am fulfilled with life right now given how cool work from home is, I occasionally think back to some of those nights out. … Continue reading Not another Long Island!

The real reason you should not be satisfied with just “getting laid”.

In the age of PUA and "game", we have had this obsession with notch count which is something our respected writer Pablo talked about on his post. So I wanted to elaborate a bit more on why this obsession with lay count is problematic and why you should not just be satisfied with pumping and … Continue reading The real reason you should not be satisfied with just “getting laid”.

One of the biggest differences between naturals and guys that struggle

I have recently found myself getting a lot of mail about my dislike for Pickup and "Seduction". In the past, I have mentioned how this is not meant to be a pickup or seduction blog. What I did want to discuss today is a key difference I have seen with naturals and guys who struggle … Continue reading One of the biggest differences between naturals and guys that struggle