At one point, many many years ago, I had some kind of a depressed epiphany. I would go out solo to nightclubs and bars and see people out in groups, it depressed me. Now I should have felt free and happy being able to “cold approach” but that wasn’t the case. Instead, I felt that … More Why social circles are overrated for meeting women.
For all young men out there, I decided to make this post as I get closer to 30. I hear how things like debt, drugs, legal troubles, not getting educated, and alcoholism can mess up your life. Well, I want to talk about the one thing that can mess up your twenties and your life … More The one thing that will mess up your life more than anything else.
Over the years, we have heard about various movements that target men such as the Red Pill, Pickup, MGTOW, and various Incel communities. We have even heard of men in places like Japan become “herbivores” as they opt out of dating and meeting women. Now it is normal to think for the most of us … More The sad state of men in 2021 and what it means for you.
You heard it many many times in the past few years of why NYC is THE city to be in if you are a single guy. Before the pandemic, I myself hyped up NYC as the best city in North America, if not the world, for single men. In no other large city do you … More Five reasons why single men should avoid NYC now.
As I near the age of thirty, I look back and reflect on how things have changed since I was in my early and mid-twenties. So many told you that men peak later on in life compared to women but that depends on a lot of things. I used to always wonder how dating would … More Observations on meeting women as I get older.
I read a lot of content from frustrated single guys and a lot of frustrated single guys coming to me about their dating woes. Some of it is just straight asking for help and a lot of it comes in the form of the incel, red pill, and Manosphere type of community rants. Women are … More If you can’t be happy being a single guy, you’ll never be happy
Stop worrying about what you can’t control, a saying all of us have heard over and over and over again. I could use that saying in my life sometimes as well because in recent months, I too have fallen into worrying about things I have no control over. Thankfully, I was able to get a … More Things worrying me that I have no control over.
What is the most valuable resource in this world? What resource is so valuable that unlike money, once you lose it, you can never get it back? What if I was to tell you young men out there that even men like Warren Buffet envy you for having this resource while they do not? The … More The most underrated rule of dating: Lose Fast
I find a lot of men are out and about in town just approaching random women, at least that is what pickup tells them to do. Now while this numbers game can lead to some success, I have found that it can also have you coming off as that creep. So how can you tie … More Find your one go to spot in public.
For those of you who have been following my blog long enough, you know that this originally started as a blog meant for dating advice and semi-red pill sort of things. Lately, I have started to talk more and more about politics to the point that I rarely talk about dating advice as much anymore. … More Why I talk about politics and society more.
Over the years, I have learned what works and what doesn’t work with dating and meeting women. I have seen movements and programs dedicated to coach young men with dating only to find that those same movements end up doing more harm to young men than good. When the blog started, I may have even … More Forget pickup, red pill, and “game”, only piece of dating advice you’ll ever need.
Not long ago, I officially left NYC and with the way things are going there, I doubt I will ever return unless I am compelled to against my own will. While NYC is a former shadow of itself since 2020, I cannot deny that my years in the city before things went haywire were the … More Five of my most fun moments in NYC.