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Observations of life in a state without a lot of COVID restrictions.

A couple of months ago, I made the decision to leave NYC after being opposed to the mandates that were being implemented. Not long after leaving NYC, I arrived in a state where the governor is aggressively pushing back against restrictions and mandates. Now my experience is quite limited for right now and this may… Continue reading Observations of life in a state without a lot of COVID restrictions.

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Toxic beliefs about dating and life I am glad I lost

“Watch your thoughts, they become words;watch your words, they become actions;watch your actions, they become habits;watch your habits, they become character;watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.”Lao Tzu (most likely) The powerful quote has been affiliated with a lot of different history figures but from my research, it seems to likely come from Lao… Continue reading Toxic beliefs about dating and life I am glad I lost

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Politically incorrect observations about NYC nightlife.

As the city reopens, officially in July, I think back to the years I spent going out in Manhattan before COVID-19 hit. What amazed me is that even in those years, some things just never really changed. I will say that even as the city reopens, I will observe the same politically incorrect things to… Continue reading Politically incorrect observations about NYC nightlife.

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Demographics are destiny and a word on race.

I often get messages from my readers who say they have done everything right with dating but it is not all coming together. Now if you subscribe to the red pill and pickup school of thought, you know how they tell you to lift, be alpha, and "learn game". You are supposed to go out… Continue reading Demographics are destiny and a word on race.

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Your end goal if you remain a bachelor.

I am going to assume that if you are still reading this blog, most of you do not want to get married and have kids. In my previous post, I stated why the red pill does not help you long-term. Now, unfortunately, at some point, you are going to get to that age where meeting… Continue reading Your end goal if you remain a bachelor.

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Why the red pill won’t help you long-term

I am sure that almost all of the readers of my blog know about the red pill movement and the reddit sub that ended up being quarantined. While many take the moral high ground on why the red pill is wrong, I actually want to talk about why it is not effective in getting you… Continue reading Why the red pill won’t help you long-term

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The city you spend your twenties in defines you.

As I approach 30, I look at my friends who dispersed to various cities after college and started to notice some trends. For one reason or another, it seemed like all of my friends who were in these cities seemed to become sponges to the city at hand. The news has it that by July,… Continue reading The city you spend your twenties in defines you.

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A college guide for the misfit and late bloomer

I get quite a few messages from guys in college who ask me how to meet people and yes, most importantly, meet women. I'd say that the advice asking for college help is one of the most common ones I get these days. Now granted, COVID-19 has changed things and we don't know what the… Continue reading A college guide for the misfit and late bloomer