Reflections of a single guy in his twenties adjusting to life as a millennial
Over the years, I have noticed that there is a tendency among men to (particularly American men) berate American or “western” women. After having had experiences with women of various nationalities and ethnic groups, I wanted to give my thoughts on whether the dislike for American women as well as the criticism they get is really that warranted. I have long […]
In the past few years, I noticed a sense of negativity overcome me. I was a very negative guy and not someone who went out into the night with the best of moods. A part of it was I ran into a lot of bad experiences with people when I first started going out and that really killed my mood. […]
On a long enough timeline when you go out, whether it is with your date or just to pickup girls, you will start to run into aggressive men. Now on one hand, aggressive guys happen every once in a blue moon because most men rather avoid conflict. Getting into fights and conflicts requires a lot of energy and people rather […]
Due to the busy week I was not able to share with you guys the story of what happened with me the night after I had a fun night with a recruiter. So I decide to go out to an event an old friend had invited me to a party at more of a Happy Hour type of location. I […]
I usually do not talk race but this is something I had to say. A lot of my good friends are Italian so I hold no ill-will towards any group but the content of this post will be very offensive, apologies in advance. A month ago I was starting out my night at one of my favorite bars in the […]
To cap off the series on late bloomer woes where we first talked about what it is and then talked about how bad it is. We even decided to dedicate a post to seeing the life of those on the other side of the fence. Now, we are going to spend this post on how to successfully deal with it […]
For those of you who missed my last post regarding late bloomer woes, I wanted to propose a question. Did you really miss out on that much? The answer might not be as clear cut as it initially seems so let me put the context into it. For the purpose of this post, let us say that a “late bloomer” is […]
Once in a while in life, you run into people that leave an impact on you. You see it in movies all the time when a guy tells a story about that one friend he remembers most or that one character. For me, one guy comes to mind as that character, Tim! When I first moved to NYC, I needed […]
Maybe I am getting old, who knows? The past weekend I went to a bar with a packed dance floor and I could barely hear a damn thing my wingman is saying. I don’t know how you even handle it or how I even handled it, to be frankly honest I don’t know when I was able to handle it. […]
Given the momentum of the week, I decided to go out on a Saturday night. I ended up getting a date with Alexis, ended in a make-out although I could not pull her home. The weather in the past week has hit hard in NYC, just the past Monday it hit night at 4 PM. With the sudden cold, I […]
At some point the past week I decided to give East Village, the tamer cousin of the Lower East Side, a chance and I started out with a good friend of mines who is also a wing at Beauty Bar. The place is kind of divey and I walk in to find it somewhat of a spot we can move […]
Taking a new approaching here and telling you guys what goes on in my life. After a great month, I decided to go out on a weekday to have some fun and drink with a friend. We decided to hit up the Lower East Side, an area of the city known for being made for the fresh out of college […]
I am going to talk about an idea here that is new, unless someone talked about it in the past, an it is something that has stuck on my mind for years. The story starts back in my college days, as I’ll share more of my life story in future posts, I wanted to open up this old wound. I […]
Anyone with years of experience in dating knows that location is arguably among the most important aspects of having a successful dating life and some cities are just a lot better than others when it comes down to it. I want to dedicate this post to speaking about a city I went to high school in, spent a couple years […]
Despite recent trends in this city which have seen people from areas like San Francisco come here in droves, gender ratio become more unfavorable for men, and some cultural changes; it is no doubt that NYC is still among the best cities in the country for a single guy. Being in NYC, you just cannot miss the nightlife in this […]
Certain cities, among younger men, have earned a reputation as being a great place for meeting single women. The cities in North America that get thrown around a lot in this mix are Montreal, Miami, and obviously New York City. I feel like a lot of these things almost come and go in cycles but I recently had a sit […]
