Reflections of a single guy in his twenties adjusting to life as a millennial
I decided to do things differently today with my usual generalization/stereotype posts. Now if you were a fan of my post on European women and then on American women, you might like this post but we are doing things a bit differently here. I will not be rating women based on looks and personality, rather, I’ll be giving you a […]
I could have said most people live plain boring lives but that sounds so cliche. Now I work in a profession full of younger professionals, usually fresh out of college and in their twenties. Despite living in a big city, I’d say that almost half the guys I know are married or in a long-term relationship. Now that leaves the rest […]
TGIF Thank God It’s Friday, unless we are talking about going out to game and meet women. I used to believe that going out on Fridays was peak time for partying, socializing, and obviously meeting women but I was wrong. After years of going out, I have found that Friday is arguably among the worst days of the week to […]
I am going to assume that if you took the time to find this blog and read my posts, you’re not the average guy. You probably don’t want the cookie cutter life of getting married young to some average girl out there as you go off to buy a house with a picket fence and a Golden Retriever. Instead, you […]
I was going to title this post the harsh truth about favorable options for meeting women but that would have been far too long and confusing of a title. Today we are going to about the harsh truth of favorable avenues, places, and “hobbies/activities” for meeting women. When I say favorable, I mean avenues that give you a shortcut or […]
I did something yesterday night that I have not done for a while. For starters, I did not even do my usual routine of meditating a bit before going out, instead I just went right out and ended up trying my luck. A group of hot girls passed by me and honestly, I had no guts to approach them, so […]
Over the years, I have noticed that there is a tendency among men to (particularly American men) berate American or “western” women. After having had experiences with women of various nationalities and ethnic groups, I wanted to give my thoughts on whether the dislike for American women as well as the criticism they get is really that warranted. I have long […]
In the past few years, I noticed a sense of negativity overcome me. I was a very negative guy and not someone who went out into the night with the best of moods. A part of it was I ran into a lot of bad experiences with people when I first started going out and that really killed my mood. […]
On a long enough timeline when you go out, whether it is with your date or just to pickup girls, you will start to run into aggressive men. Now on one hand, aggressive guys happen every once in a blue moon because most men rather avoid conflict. Getting into fights and conflicts requires a lot of energy and people rather […]
Due to the busy week I was not able to share with you guys the story of what happened with me the night after I had a fun night with a recruiter. So I decide to go out to an event an old friend had invited me to a party at more of a Happy Hour type of location. I […]
I usually do not talk race but this is something I had to say. A lot of my good friends are Italian so I hold no ill-will towards any group but the content of this post will be very offensive, apologies in advance. A month ago I was starting out my night at one of my favorite bars in the […]
To cap off the series on late bloomer woes where we first talked about what it is and then talked about how bad it is. We even decided to dedicate a post to seeing the life of those on the other side of the fence. Now, we are going to spend this post on how to successfully deal with it […]
For those of you who missed my last post regarding late bloomer woes, I wanted to propose a question. Did you really miss out on that much? The answer might not be as clear cut as it initially seems so let me put the context into it. For the purpose of this post, let us say that a “late bloomer” is […]
Once in a while in life, you run into people that leave an impact on you. You see it in movies all the time when a guy tells a story about that one friend he remembers most or that one character. For me, one guy comes to mind as that character, Tim! When I first moved to NYC, I needed […]
Maybe I am getting old, who knows? The past weekend I went to a bar with a packed dance floor and I could barely hear a damn thing my wingman is saying. I don’t know how you even handle it or how I even handled it, to be frankly honest I don’t know when I was able to handle it. […]
Given the momentum of the week, I decided to go out on a Saturday night. I ended up getting a date with Alexis, ended in a make-out although I could not pull her home. The weather in the past week has hit hard in NYC, just the past Monday it hit night at 4 PM. With the sudden cold, I […]
