Why Pickup/Dating Advice doesn’t work for a lot of men.

I have long talked about why pickup and dating advice has its downfalls, however, I want to go more into detail on exactly why it doesn't work for most guys out there. In order for me to truly drive my point home, I wanted to use a poorly built diagram that I put together that … Continue reading Why Pickup/Dating Advice doesn’t work for a lot of men.

How I changed as I turned 30.

I have been ambiguous about my age on this site and in my posts, but today I wanted to address it. Not that long ago, I turned 30. Yes, 2022 was the year I officially left my 20s and turned 30. However, other than starting a new decade, it did not feel as different as … Continue reading How I changed as I turned 30.

A must read post about meeting women and dating for every guy in these trying times.

Ever since 2020 and the start of the pandemic, times have been tough and that is an understatement. We are dealing with inflation, massive lay-offs, and a potential recession on the horizon. Political divisions keep getting worse and it seems like every year, society is falling apart. It's different from the times a lot of … Continue reading A must read post about meeting women and dating for every guy in these trying times.

Status: Why you must first accept who you really are.

So a topic that comes up a lot these days in regards to attracting women is the talk about status and being "cool". The reason I bring this up is because it is not only kind of personal to me but also personal to a lot of my readers. I feel like because I have … Continue reading Status: Why you must first accept who you really are.

10 lessons I’ve learned about women, dating, and relationships in my twenties.

Every year, I get closer to 30 and as I approach the new decade, I thought I'd share some of the lessons I have learned about women, dating, relationships, and "game" throughout my twenties. Now the post may get long and even have a part 2 to it if I feel like it is worth … Continue reading 10 lessons I’ve learned about women, dating, and relationships in my twenties.

Why you must stop thinking that men peak at a later age.

So there is a common notion that gets told about how women age like milk and men age like fine wine. We are all also familiar with the chart by Rational Male around how men peak somewhere around their 30s. Now some will debate and say that this is not actually true at all and … Continue reading Why you must stop thinking that men peak at a later age.

One of the most powerful feelings you will ever have as a single man.

At my old workplace, there was a guy named Jorge. Now my old workplace was kind of the stereotypical corporate boomer type of place where senior leadership played golf and everyone was trying to please them. Jorge was on my team which was mostly people in their twenties but I notice that he kept a … Continue reading One of the most powerful feelings you will ever have as a single man.

Nostalgia – Were things really better back then?

After staying with my family due to some very hectic reasons, I looked at some of our old photos. I don't mean on cellphones, I mean the ones that you took with a camera that had a film in it and everything. Now I was a kid back then but we all seemed to so … Continue reading Nostalgia – Were things really better back then?

Signs that “dating advice” has poisoned your life.

I'll use the word dating advice loosely here but I am trying to say advice for men as it regards to getting better with women or just coping with not being successful with women. What are some signs that the advice has poisoned you and done you more harm than good? You are more bitter … Continue reading Signs that “dating advice” has poisoned your life.

Some people are just beyond help.

When you aim to help people whether it is in dating or just about anything out there, you go out with good intentions. Now when you are new, you will always make a mistake that just about every newbie trying to help people makes. The mistake? You will try to help people that seem to … Continue reading Some people are just beyond help.

Feedback Loops: Why you still suck with women.

You did it, you engaged in the "self-improvement journey". You got in better shape, you started making money, you started to be more worldly, and you did so much to be better with women. You even learned so many different languages and did a few approaches but after all of this, here you are with … Continue reading Feedback Loops: Why you still suck with women.

Truth about guys that struggle with women even after all the self-improvement.

You learned another language, got wealthier, learned "game" by signing up for PUA classes, traveled the world, and even after all of that you struggle with dating. This story is more common than you believe and it can be discouraging to a lot of guys out there who are just starting out. After all, if … Continue reading Truth about guys that struggle with women even after all the self-improvement.