Reflections of a single guy in his twenties adjusting to life as a millennial
Before I start, I want to say that my thoughts and prayers go out to those whose loved ones have been affected by COVID-19 and those who have been affected by it themselves. Health comes before all and life is valuable, for those of you who are safe and healthy, please be grateful. This thing is going to have some […]
After reading posts on dating and masculinity forums over the years and having talked to a few men, I found a very troubling trend I wanted to address. All too often, I see a guy mention the following things and ask for dating advice: Still living with parents after the age of 21 Still not gainfully employed No career or […]
Given the news recently, we are in a time where restaurants and bars are shut down other than for delivery orders. The streets are relatively empty and for the next month or so, we will have a situation where the country will more or less be on lockdown. For the typical reader who likes going out on weekends and enjoying the […]
The Coronavirus has taken the country by storm in the recent weeks. Despite the overall empty landscape in the largest city in America, I went out to a rooftop I really like and found that it had just enough people in it. I see this tall blonde who was not bad looking at all, she had a distinct look to […]
One belief that has spread throughout masculine spaces is that the dating game gets better for men with age while it gets worse for women. A saying out there goes that men age like fine wine while women age like milk. I see this fantasy being sold to younger men everywhere about the beauty of getting older as a guy […]
The overlap between sales and dating is quite strong, especially when it comes to actually attracting women. Now like any other profession out there, sales has also evolved a bit from the good old days of cold calling until someone took a meeting with you to something more sophisticated. For my current work, a lot of what I do basically […]
Throughout my life, largely due to a troubled youth, I struggled with major confidence issues. I blame a large part of this on abusive parenting, it is hard to recover from. Even now to some degree, while I do have confidence issues, I feel like I have come a long way from this epiphany. Many years ago, I signed up […]
In my last post, I talked about how most single men live boring lives. In this post, I want to talk about how the winners, alpha males, and men who truly “make it” do things differently. Over the years, I have had the chance to be around the kind of guys some would consider a “Chad” or “Alpha” or “Slayer”, they […]
I am going to assume that if you took the time to find this blog and read my posts, you’re not the average guy. You probably don’t want the cookie cutter life of getting married young to some average girl out there as you go off to buy a house with a picket fence and a Golden Retriever. Instead, you […]
I was going to title this post the harsh truth about favorable options for meeting women but that would have been far too long and confusing of a title. Today we are going to about the harsh truth of favorable avenues, places, and “hobbies/activities” for meeting women. When I say favorable, I mean avenues that give you a shortcut or […]
I did something yesterday night that I have not done for a while. For starters, I did not even do my usual routine of meditating a bit before going out, instead I just went right out and ended up trying my luck. A group of hot girls passed by me and honestly, I had no guts to approach them, so […]
In the past few years, I noticed a sense of negativity overcome me. I was a very negative guy and not someone who went out into the night with the best of moods. A part of it was I ran into a lot of bad experiences with people when I first started going out and that really killed my mood. […]
So this is a post I have been wanting to do for quite some time but never got around to it until now. My opinion here comes from travel experiences to various European countries as well as living in international cities that drew a lot of European tourists and expats. I cannot promise that everyone will be happy with this […]
Maybe Cleveland is not so bad…… Not too long ago, I talked about how growing up in Georgia affected me and turned me into who I am today but I got a few emails from you guys talking to me about what it is exactly I hated about life in Georgia. For some context, I spent a lot of my […]
