A few years ago, I was very active on pickup forums but I never really posted all that much. I was the guy who would see the conversations take place but never really get actively engaged in them. As anyone may be familiar with forums and pickup communities online, there are guys who post the … More The Bachelor Tales: Winging with a Pickup Artist.
Perhaps the pandemic caused it or something did but in recent years, we have seen a death in the glorification of the bachelor lifestyle and a shift to the radically different end. Now, in male spaces, there is a glorification of the family life and kids. Now, the idea has gone from be single for … More The recent marriage and family life obsession in male spaces.
It was early 2019 and a different world, crazy to think right? NYC was still NYC as we know it, an open city with one of the best nightlife in the world. Everyone who is anyone decided to come to the city and nothing yelled status more than saying that you live in Manhattan. In … More The Bachelor Tales: Small fish in a big pond.
I’ve been silent for a while and 2021 was definitely a tough year for me with all of the changes. Not only did I experience a lot of ups and downs, I also moved from a city I swore I will live in for quite some time. We managed to get some great posts and … More Reflecting back on 2021 and some news for 2022.
I have talked about the sad state of men and before the year ends, as I look back on 2021, it is safe to say that men have declined even more. Now in my spare time, I do browse spaces meant to empower single men and as someone who has been doing this for years, … More 5 ways men have declined even further in 2021.
Over the years, we have heard about various movements that target men such as the Red Pill, Pickup, MGTOW, and various Incel communities. We have even heard of men in places like Japan become “herbivores” as they opt out of dating and meeting women. Now it is normal to think for the most of us … More The sad state of men in 2021 and what it means for you.
You heard it many many times in the past few years of why NYC is THE city to be in if you are a single guy. Before the pandemic, I myself hyped up NYC as the best city in North America, if not the world, for single men. In no other large city do you … More Five reasons why single men should avoid NYC now.
Whether or not the pandemic is over is up to your imagination but after almost two years of lockdowns and mandates, I’ve learned some lessons I would love to share with all of you. Maybe you feel the same way, maybe you do not, I’d love to hear from you either ways. For now, here … More Five lessons learned from this pandemic (so far)
Stop worrying about what you can’t control, a saying all of us have heard over and over and over again. I could use that saying in my life sometimes as well because in recent months, I too have fallen into worrying about things I have no control over. Thankfully, I was able to get a … More Things worrying me that I have no control over.
Not too long ago, I packed up my things and left NYC to go to a state with a lot less mandates (and a better cost of living). After deciding between Tennessee, Texas, and Florida, I ultimately went with Florida. Not only did the lack of state income tax win me over, I was also … More Five things I’ve learned being in Florida (so far).
So I am going to share something with all of you that will make half of you stop reading my blog ever again, I am not vaccinated. Earlier in the year, I got COVID-19 and this was before the vaccine was FDA-approved. By the time I wanted to get it, even before approval, I was … More Inside the mind of a guy facing termination if he doesn’t get vaccinated
I have no other way to really describe the emotions that are going through me right now, it’s tough to do so in a sentence or perhaps even in words. Here we are, after many years in a city that turned me from a boy to a man. Just today, I took a long walk … More Farewell NYC: Empire State of Mind turns into Escape from New York