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Forget pickup, red pill, and “game”, only piece of dating advice you’ll ever need.

Over the years, I have learned what works and what doesn't work with dating and meeting women. I have seen movements and programs dedicated to coach young men with dating only to find that those same movements end up doing more harm to young men than good. When the blog started, I may have even… Continue reading Forget pickup, red pill, and “game”, only piece of dating advice you’ll ever need.

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Signs that it is time to quit the drinking and partying lifestyle.

Throughout this week, I have been talking about my experiences with the drinking and partying lifestyle and what led me to quit. Now I have a lot of readers who go out a lot at nights and I encourage this, a lot. As I have said repeatedly, there is a difference between going out to… Continue reading Signs that it is time to quit the drinking and partying lifestyle.

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Why it is actually harder to meet new women when you live the party lifestyle.

For those of you who had the chance to read about my decision to quit the party lifestyle recently, I thought I'd share even more on why it is tougher to meet women in that lifestyle. Now once again, I define this lifestyle as not exactly going out and drinking. I highly recommend men go… Continue reading Why it is actually harder to meet new women when you live the party lifestyle.

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Synastry Sundays: The most intense relationship I ever had in my life.

As a good bit of you know from recent posts, we will be discussing astrology more on here and specifically, synastry. Moving forward, I am going to invest more and more time into discussing synastry on Sundays and astrology overall on weekends. When I think of synastry, I look to one of the most powerful,… Continue reading Synastry Sundays: The most intense relationship I ever had in my life.

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The night I learned the reality about Fraternity Life.

As those of you who know my story or have come across it spread across many posts, you know that I was never the popular frat boy type in college or even in any fraternities despite going to a school where it was big. When you go to school down south, Greek Life is about… Continue reading The night I learned the reality about Fraternity Life.

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Why nightclubs are overrated.

When I first started going out, nightclubs were the places to be if you wanted to meet women and take a girl home the same night you met her. After all, when you are new to going out, you want to get that loud music and alcohol in your system so you can appreciate the… Continue reading Why nightclubs are overrated.

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Don’t focus on what city is best for dating.

Every now and then, you will get a report released highlighting gender ratios and what cities are best for men versus women when it comes to dating. A number of guys will move to a certain city only because they feel like it can change their dating life whether it is due to having more… Continue reading Don’t focus on what city is best for dating.

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Is it time to settle down after 30?

As I approach my thirties, I start to look at my future life. Yet, I am at a crossroads where for once, I cannot truthfully tell any of you that I have a correct answer. At the same time, this is the time right? I wake up every morning and while some of my health… Continue reading Is it time to settle down after 30?

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The cold hard truth about being a single guy over the age of 25.

So I get emails all the time from guys asking me if it is too late to have their fun, sow their wild oats, or learn dating skills. Now a lot of generic content out there around dating and pickup will tell you that it is "never too late" or that men "peak in their… Continue reading The cold hard truth about being a single guy over the age of 25.

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Your limiting beliefs are probably legit

So I have been getting a lot of emails lately around dating as guy if you are not the prototype of perfect. We all know what that usually is which is tall, of a dominant social group, and handsome (along with a lot of other positive features). I constantly have guys telling me how their… Continue reading Your limiting beliefs are probably legit

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The night I saw the difference between a natural and an incel.

A year ago, the company I worked at was having its team members nation wide visit the head office in NYC for a week. The demographic was mostly people in their twenties and early thirties who were single and open to trying out new things. We had a week of team building exercises overall with… Continue reading The night I saw the difference between a natural and an incel.