Why my stance on cold approach and day game has changed.

For those of you who have been following my blog for a while, you know that I have not always been the biggest champion of cold approach. Even though I was not the biggest enemy of it, I was always trying to call out pickup artists as being sleazy and even proposing that things like … Continue reading Why my stance on cold approach and day game has changed.

10 lessons I’ve learned about women, dating, and relationships in my twenties.

Every year, I get closer to 30 and as I approach the new decade, I thought I'd share some of the lessons I have learned about women, dating, relationships, and "game" throughout my twenties. Now the post may get long and even have a part 2 to it if I feel like it is worth … Continue reading 10 lessons I’ve learned about women, dating, and relationships in my twenties.

Why you probably shouldn’t worry about male competition, PUAs and gender ratios.

After close to a year in a city that some consider to be highly competitive when it comes to dating and meeting women, I decided to make this post. You tend to hear it all the time really and guys are obsessed with the magic place they can go to where single women outnumber single … Continue reading Why you probably shouldn’t worry about male competition, PUAs and gender ratios.

Why you must stop thinking that men peak at a later age.

So there is a common notion that gets told about how women age like milk and men age like fine wine. We are all also familiar with the chart by Rational Male around how men peak somewhere around their 30s. Now some will debate and say that this is not actually true at all and … Continue reading Why you must stop thinking that men peak at a later age.

Signs that “dating advice” has poisoned your life.

I'll use the word dating advice loosely here but I am trying to say advice for men as it regards to getting better with women or just coping with not being successful with women. What are some signs that the advice has poisoned you and done you more harm than good? You are more bitter … Continue reading Signs that “dating advice” has poisoned your life.

The cold hard truth about pickup/”game” communities and forums.

As people, we are naturally inclined to find community. When we are miserable, it helps to have others who are miserable with us as well. The value in the community is that we are supposed to have others lift us up and help us become the best version of ourselves, right? Well, I used to … Continue reading The cold hard truth about pickup/”game” communities and forums.

The most important post on this site, ever. Share this with all men!

Over the years, you have seen me post a variety of content but as of today, this site changes and the very theme of it as well. No, this does mean we are going to talk about different topics or anything. The reason I make this post and have decided to change the direction of … Continue reading The most important post on this site, ever. Share this with all men!