For those of you who have been following my blog for a while, you know that I have not always been the biggest champion of cold approach. Even though I was not the biggest enemy of it, I was always trying to call out pickup artists as being sleazy and even proposing that things like … Continue reading Why my stance on cold approach and day game has changed.
Every year, I get closer to 30 and as I approach the new decade, I thought I'd share some of the lessons I have learned about women, dating, relationships, and "game" throughout my twenties. Now the post may get long and even have a part 2 to it if I feel like it is worth … Continue reading 10 lessons I’ve learned about women, dating, and relationships in my twenties.
After close to a year in a city that some consider to be highly competitive when it comes to dating and meeting women, I decided to make this post. You tend to hear it all the time really and guys are obsessed with the magic place they can go to where single women outnumber single … Continue reading Why you probably shouldn’t worry about male competition, PUAs and gender ratios.
Many years ago, I went on the journey to learn "game" and it was one that took me down the path of listening to Pickup Artists, Red Pill writers, and at some point even taking a stab at the Black Pill. While I do not associate with any of those things anymore, I have kept … Continue reading What I’ve seen happen to men who learn “game”.
So there is a common notion that gets told about how women age like milk and men age like fine wine. We are all also familiar with the chart by Rational Male around how men peak somewhere around their 30s. Now some will debate and say that this is not actually true at all and … Continue reading Why you must stop thinking that men peak at a later age.
I'll use the word dating advice loosely here but I am trying to say advice for men as it regards to getting better with women or just coping with not being successful with women. What are some signs that the advice has poisoned you and done you more harm than good? You are more bitter … Continue reading Signs that “dating advice” has poisoned your life.
As people, we are naturally inclined to find community. When we are miserable, it helps to have others who are miserable with us as well. The value in the community is that we are supposed to have others lift us up and help us become the best version of ourselves, right? Well, I used to … Continue reading The cold hard truth about pickup/”game” communities and forums.
For those of you who may have read my story or a while back and for those who have not, I am a late bloomer. Despite the success I would go on to have in my twenties which ended up in me getting laid a lot, my college and high school years were depressing. Now … Continue reading The number one reason I sucked with women and life.
After posting my verdict on Miami, I am going to share with you guys how it compares to a city long-considered great for single men, NYC. I have had the chance to be in Miami for a few months now and NYC for quite a few years. While the two cities are loaded with beautiful … Continue reading Miami vs. NYC
After spending quite a few months in Miami, I wanted to share whether or not this city is worth it for men to move to for dating and meeting women. Instead of making your read a bunch of words, I will give you the verdict right now and you can continue reading afterwards if you … Continue reading The verdict on Miami.
Over the years, you have seen me post a variety of content but as of today, this site changes and the very theme of it as well. No, this does mean we are going to talk about different topics or anything. The reason I make this post and have decided to change the direction of … Continue reading The most important post on this site, ever. Share this with all men!
So to cap off my series on race, solely dedicated to Asian and Indian men, I wanted to point to the future. As I have shared on this site here and there, things have surely changed even in the past decade from my observations. When I first arrived in Manhattan, it was not that common … Continue reading The future for Asian and Indian men in the western world.