Reflections of a single guy in his twenties adjusting to life as a millennial
Throughout my life, largely due to a troubled youth, I struggled with major confidence issues. I blame a large part of this on abusive parenting, it is hard to recover from. Even now to some degree, while I do have confidence issues, I feel like I have come a long way from this epiphany. Many years ago, I signed up […]
I decided to do things differently today with my usual generalization/stereotype posts. Now if you were a fan of my post on European women and then on American women, you might like this post but we are doing things a bit differently here. I will not be rating women based on looks and personality, rather, I’ll be giving you a […]
Ignorance is bliss I sometimes go a little bit off the deep end when it comes to talking about dating and game as you have seen from my theory posts. Well, here is the reality of it all, they’re really just theory. I have thoughts that come to mind sometimes and I share them. For all I know, I could […]
In my last post, I talked about how most single men live boring lives. In this post, I want to talk about how the winners, alpha males, and men who truly “make it” do things differently. Over the years, I have had the chance to be around the kind of guys some would consider a “Chad” or “Alpha” or “Slayer”, they […]
I could have said most people live plain boring lives but that sounds so cliche. Now I work in a profession full of younger professionals, usually fresh out of college and in their twenties. Despite living in a big city, I’d say that almost half the guys I know are married or in a long-term relationship. Now that leaves the rest […]
TGIF Thank God It’s Friday, unless we are talking about going out to game and meet women. I used to believe that going out on Fridays was peak time for partying, socializing, and obviously meeting women but I was wrong. After years of going out, I have found that Friday is arguably among the worst days of the week to […]
For those of you who watched the Super Bowl, you probably had a chance to see the Chiefs hold their heads high as they marched to victory. While I applaud the effort the 49ers put in, Patrick Mahomes II is really something else. So while I can applaud the 49ers for their effort, I cannot applaud the city of San […]
I thank a lot in my life to the rise of the internet but one thing I thank almost above all is the ability to hear from guys who have been through it all. While the dating advice and seduction industry is full of nonsense, phonies, and guys who are straight out frauds; there are guys and sources out there […]
I am going to assume that if you took the time to find this blog and read my posts, you’re not the average guy. You probably don’t want the cookie cutter life of getting married young to some average girl out there as you go off to buy a house with a picket fence and a Golden Retriever. Instead, you […]
I was going to title this post the harsh truth about favorable options for meeting women but that would have been far too long and confusing of a title. Today we are going to about the harsh truth of favorable avenues, places, and “hobbies/activities” for meeting women. When I say favorable, I mean avenues that give you a shortcut or […]
I did something yesterday night that I have not done for a while. For starters, I did not even do my usual routine of meditating a bit before going out, instead I just went right out and ended up trying my luck. A group of hot girls passed by me and honestly, I had no guts to approach them, so […]
So we are almost halfway into the month and I did not even get to wish you guys a Happy New Years. Quite frankly, I have not been the biggest fan of the New Years Resolutions. In my view, you either do it or you either don’t, it should not take a New Year and a New Decade for you […]
Over the years, I have noticed that there is a tendency among men to (particularly American men) berate American or “western” women. After having had experiences with women of various nationalities and ethnic groups, I wanted to give my thoughts on whether the dislike for American women as well as the criticism they get is really that warranted. I have long […]
Does it get harder? Does it get easier? The answer is not exactly straightforward, it is something that is very case by case. From my experience, it is different in many ways after college which might favor some men that would have otherwise struggled in college. I do think that there are also some things that remain the same in […]
In the past few years, I noticed a sense of negativity overcome me. I was a very negative guy and not someone who went out into the night with the best of moods. A part of it was I ran into a lot of bad experiences with people when I first started going out and that really killed my mood. […]
On a long enough timeline when you go out, whether it is with your date or just to pickup girls, you will start to run into aggressive men. Now on one hand, aggressive guys happen every once in a blue moon because most men rather avoid conflict. Getting into fights and conflicts requires a lot of energy and people rather […]
