Before you start to worry as a man.

Look at both sides of the story, especially the person saying the very thing that makes you worry. I feel like whenever you log on to the internet, a sea of negativity and horror stories awaits you. As a hypochondriac guilty of Googling his symptoms, let's just say that this even has me thinking I … Continue reading Before you start to worry as a man.

The only way out of the Friend Zone.

Or really, the only potential way to get girls that don't see you as a romantic partner and don't seem to be attracted to you. Before you go on, you must accept that you are just not the type for some women. Some women will just not like you no matter what you do and … Continue reading The only way out of the Friend Zone.

A Wolf In Sheep’s Clothing (11/3/19)

I remember 2019 and before the whole pandemic started, how I was slowly coming into form with game. At this point, I had met a really cool Eastern European wingman, let's call him Paul. Paul stood at about 6'1, had blond hair, and somewhat of an Ivan Drago look going to him. Paul and I … Continue reading A Wolf In Sheep’s Clothing (11/3/19)

How I changed as I turned 30.

I have been ambiguous about my age on this site and in my posts, but today I wanted to address it. Not that long ago, I turned 30. Yes, 2022 was the year I officially left my 20s and turned 30. However, other than starting a new decade, it did not feel as different as … Continue reading How I changed as I turned 30.

Why are there so many single guys on the West Coast?

A while ago, I shared a statistic that talked about the ratio of single men to single women in the US. One thing that immediately stuck out is that west coast cities (Denver, LA, San Francisco, San Diego, etc.) had a lot more single men than single women compared to the cities on the East … Continue reading Why are there so many single guys on the West Coast?

No One Is Coming To Save Me.

Or you! I haven't posted in a while even though I have had a crazy August. The action section has gone dry but I will do the best to post on that more. However, I had a certain experience in August regarding women, friends, dating, and wingmen that led me to an epiphany. Some can … Continue reading No One Is Coming To Save Me.

When is the best time in life for a man to peak?

Or as some might say, hit his peak Sexual Market Value (SMV). Now it is suspected by some that a man typically peaks in his late thirties. However, just because a man peaks in his late thirties, are your late thirties ideally the best time in life to hit your peak SMV? In my honest … Continue reading When is the best time in life for a man to peak?

The truth about guys that complain about how tough dating is in X city.

After almost a year in Miami, I have started to reflect a bit on the dating culture in the city. On one hand, almost no other city in the US has such an abundance of beautiful women. On the other, the culture in general is very feisty, snotty, trashy, and vain. When I first arrived … Continue reading The truth about guys that complain about how tough dating is in X city.

Abundance is always the answer.

I've been silent in the past week or so and the reason is, because I have been debating whether to put my lengthy field reports on here or my advice posts. My desire was leaning towards the latter but my field reports had, for the most part except for a couple of instances, been uneventful. … Continue reading Abundance is always the answer.

My thoughts on going back to NYC.

So quite a few of my readers and others around me have been asking if I will ever go back to NYC. After all, as much as I may have disagreed with the politics, NYC did give me some of the best years of my life. As I talk to some of my friends who … Continue reading My thoughts on going back to NYC.

The problem with guys that do night game but don’t drink.

Lately, I have seen a trend in some of my wings and even the pickup community at large where guys go out to "sarge" or hit on women at bars and nightclubs yet they won't drink. Now this is not brought up as a problem but in reality, it is quite a big problem and … Continue reading The problem with guys that do night game but don’t drink.